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makelifehappen Phoenix


Joined: Feb 05, 2007 Posts: 548 Location: Toronto
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 3:27 am Post subject: School Safety Plan |
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It has been our experience that when dealing with the school system, there is this optical illusion that they know what your child needs are, have done many IEP's before, have worked with children "like yours", have extensive knowledge and training in how to work with and teach your AS child. I was never more appauled when I found our IEP sent home with 3, YES 3 goals and 2 modifications and one of these three measurable goals was to get her to the find her way to the bus independently! Are they for real??!!!!!
*shakes head*
I have asked here and on many other forums, groups, parent networks for suggestions for IEP's, but it seems that everyone is even more clueless than the last guy, as the school tends to write up this sort of rubbish and gets away with it! It kills me, daily, as I sit at my computer tapping away at my keyboard playing search engine Queen, to know that there are people out there that simply do not have the language, knowledge or resources to get the services that their children are entitled to and deserve. Asperger's is still being swept under the carpet and not given the full credit that it deserves as a ASD.
Here is a copy of the Safety Plan that we have created, drawing on many points from a sample one I was given recently, which identifies my child's needs and steers clear of the staff's needs (which is what the school board often writes up when they do the safety plan).
Best wishes!
Safety Plan
Behaviour
Anxiety: Tense body, Fidgeting, Stomachache, Headache, Holding her hands over her ears, Asking for a time out, Obvious physical signs of stress, Increased volume of voice/uncharacteristic manner, Fatigue, Lack of inertia
Trigger(s)
Hypersensitivities
Noise (Hearing): CAP Disorder, Bells, Fire drill, Gymnasium noise, Lunchroom activity/noise, Music class (instrumental), Unstructured times such as recess, lunch, entry and exit times in hallways, Lights, Fans, Air conditioning, Noisy traffic, Malls/restaurants/social gatherings or outings, White noise (classroom noises – desks sliding, pencil sharpener /tapping, chatter)
Temperature: Over heating – low heat threshold, Cold sensitive
Hunger: Hunger/thirst or low blood sugar, Allow AS CHILD FILL IN NAME ability to have snack, even during times of discipline
Visual distractions: Strobe lights, Flashing lights, Fast action scenes on television or video, Flickering florescent light
Tactile defensiveness: Enjoys tight clothing, Likes to be touched, but only on her own terms, Tags, Texture, Sock seams. Elastics, Snow pants, Underwear, Hats
Tastes: Sensitive to certain tastes and textures
Smells: Perfumes, Wood, Aftershave, Food, Plants, Animals
Transitions: Any routine variation, Schedule change, Supply teacher
Prevention Strategies
Remain Calm
Evaluate the extent of hyperactive behaviour to assess need for immediate or graduated response.
Either remove the trigger from AS CHILD FILL IN NAME or AS CHILD FILL IN NAME from the trigger in a calm, nurturing & non-punitive manner
Make sure the FM system is on especially if the class is noisy/assembly times difficulty may be due to high ceilings in school/echoing
Talk to AS CHILD FILL IN NAME quietly and reassure her that she is ok
Give plenty of advance notice as to changes in routine or schedules including reminders
Breakdown instructions into smaller steps
Offer visual and verbal instructions for assignments and rephrase or repeat to ensure comprehension
Assist in organizing her day with a visual schedule, agenda
Prepare AS CHILD FILL IN NAME for unstructured activities by rehearsing what she needs to do and advise her that she may seek a quieter place.
Ask AS CHILD FILL IN NAME if she has eaten appropriately
Consider turning florescent lights off and using an incandescent lamp
Do not restrain or touch her while she is in an anxious state. It will only cause her to escalate.
Have staff refrain from wearing perfumes and aftershave
Outline clear expectations of what behaviours are acceptable and not acceptable in the classroom
Where possible, select classes with smaller number of students and a highly structured environment
Intervention(s)
When AS CHILD FILL IN NAME shows signs of anxiety, be supportive by:
Be respectful of her feelings
Try to reduce the triggers especially if she is reacting to competing voices/noises in the classroom
Check for overheating – remove excess sweaters or jackets
Check for headache – look for directions from parents in OSR
Suggest a walk or redirection to help her calm. Use a pre-determined signal such as laying the agenda on the desk or taking the attendance to the office. AS CHILD FILL IN NAME can then take time to collect herself in a calming way and not become the focus of a power struggle.
Have a quieter non-threatening place where AS CHILD FILL IN NAME can go to regain her composure while maintaining her self-esteem and dignity
Do not try to rationalize her behaviours with her at that time, as she is not capable of social autopsies while in anxiety mode
Help AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to de-escalate by encouraging self-calming strategies such as deep breathing, removing herself to a quieter place while trying to assist her in maintaining her self-esteem and dignity
Check for hunger – suggest she may want to get a snack from her lunch
Assist her to get something from her lunchbag such as a source of protein
Redirect and support but do not touch.
It is important to note that at this stage, further escalation of behaviour can be avoided. Do not get in a power struggle.
Behaviour
Defensive stage: Demanding questions, Tries to gain teacher’s attention, Challenges / intimidates, Tells others how to behave or be quiet, Begins to lose rationality, Refusal and non-compliant
Trigger(s)
Confusion over expectations – unclear instructions, negative interpretation
Lack of insight in reading the body language of teachers and peers
Misses social cues and voice inflections
Fears teacher and/or class rejection
Lack of preparation or perceived lack for the structured class (homework not complete or no supplies)
Negative feedback for poor work, reprimands for behaviours judged inappropriate for which she had no control
Lecturing or yelling at her
Embarrassing her or shaming her
Blaming her
* When the above triggers are not resolved the behaviours will escalate.
Prevention Strategies
Positive feedback about achievements and ongoing progress
Negative test results should be provided in individual settings
Intervention(s)
Set simple clear limits
Give her expectations that are concrete, reasonable and attainable
Be consistent
Tell AS CHILD FILL IN NAME what she needs to do
Offer choices that will allow her to regain her composure
Restate expectations outside the room again
Behaviour
Loss of Control: Raising voice, Yelling, Hitting others/self, Shoving desk, Throwing objects, Hiding under desk or in a small space, Tearing paper
Trigger(s)
Trying to discuss the cause of the meltdown and lecturing her about it, during .
Blaming her
Making her feel embarrassed or ashamed
* If triggers cannot be resolved then the behaviours will escalate
Prevention Strategies
Intervention(s)
Once AS CHILD FILL IN NAME goes into a “full rage” and her loss of control is a safety concern for herself or others AS CHILD FILL IN NAME is often unable to reason or disengage her emotions at ther point. It is important to remember that rage is not always specific to events in the classroom, but AS CHILD FILL IN NAME’s anger at herself for losing control.
AS CHILD FILL IN NAME should be allowed space and not be crowded
Always allow AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to vent
Remain calm, using a neutral, firm voice tell AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to go to her safe place and walk with her
The person accompanying her to the safe place should walk with her and do not attempt to talk to her. This is not a time to reprimand her or chat until she has regained control.
Avoid confrontation- ther is not a time to discuss cause of the outburst.
Do not use restraints or holds on AS CHILD FILL IN NAME as it will only escalate the behaviours.
Redirect her verbally. Use short instructions in a calm voice.
Once she begins to calm down and regain control, remind her to do some deep breathing exercises.
Behaviour
Tension Reduction (Recovery stage): Expressions of remorse and frustration at her inability to self-control, May express desire to hurt herself in order to prevent this from happening in the future, Can become extremely sad and tearful. AS CHILD FILL IN NAME knows the others fear her when she goes into a rage and is very distressed by it, Slowed breathing, body tension subsides
Intervention(s)
This is an important time for learning to take place. It is not a time for detailing all of her inappropriate behaviours and making her accountable by either suspension, removal of privileges or expulsion. It is time to remember that she has been identified as having Autism. All, including AS CHILD FILL IN NAME can learn.
Allow AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to talk about her feelings
Once AS CHILD FILL IN NAME has expressed her feelings, this can be an opportunity for instruction and discussion on how to better handle specific situations in the future
Allow AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to maintain her dignity
Allow AS CHILD FILL IN NAME to express her feelings and discuss alternative strategies that can be used if the situation occurs again
Discuss and plan appropriate consequences for behaviours but only when her condition is taken into account. Be sure she feels she received a fair hearing and all the children involved were treated the same.
Once AS CHILD FILL IN NAME has regained control she may need help re-integrating into the classroom and catching up on missed work.
Restore the environment if necessary
Do not continue to nag or argue about her meltdown as it could lead to more.
Offer praise for regaining her self-control _________________ It isnt a programming error, it is an operating system... |
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Triangular_Trees What is right is sometimes found on the left.


Joined: Jul 18, 2007 Posts: 2053
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:16 am Post subject: |
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| I've never heard of an IEP today where the parents weren't active participants in determining the goals etc. In fact, I think it may even be federal law that the parents are able to fully participate in setting up should they choose to do so (though I'd have to look that up to verify for sure) |
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girl7000 Majestic Eagle Owl


Joined: Mar 11, 2007 Posts: 1270 Location: Somewhere in the Atlantic
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Posted: Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:45 am Post subject: |
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| Just want to say that I too think it would be useful to sticky this. |
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makelifehappen Phoenix


Joined: Feb 05, 2007 Posts: 548 Location: Toronto
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Posted: Wed Oct 29, 2008 10:03 am Post subject: |
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*bump*
Can someone sticky this?? _________________ It isnt a programming error, it is an operating system... |
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FrogGirl Phoenix


Joined: Oct 14, 2008 Age: 35 Posts: 764 Location: Lost wherever I am
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Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:50 am Post subject: |
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| does your child have a behavior plan included on her IEP? |
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black_legion Deinonychus


Joined: Sep 22, 2007 Age: 16 Posts: 392 Location: united kingdom
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Posted: Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:35 am Post subject: |
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HI! _________________ do u liek mudkipz? |
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ster Phoenix


Joined: Sep 24, 2005 Posts: 2727 Location: new england
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 12:21 pm Post subject: |
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great ideas there..........i do think, however, that we all need to remember that every individual is different & that what works for one child might not necessarily work for another. i've worked extensively with individuals who begin to perseverate, for instance, on a specific topic. some of them respond well to distraction- that is, changing the subject or getting them to focus on some other task.........others only become irritated by this method. some folks need time limits to be set- that is, you can talk about your topic for 2 minutes. when the timer goes off, it's time to work........still others are totally undirectable ( is that a word??). at any rate, they respond best to firm directions & an alternate setting ( quiet space to sit and compose oneself)
every parent should be working closely with their school to make certain that their child receives the services & support plan that are appropriate for their child. If you as a parent, are not happy with the status quo, then you can calmly negotiate that with the teacher. If you don't get anywhere with the teacher, move on to the principal and/or social worker....Keep moving up the chain of command until you can get a meeting together to discuss your concerns. |
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momx4 Emu Egg


Joined: May 12, 2009 Posts: 1
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2009 2:21 pm Post subject: |
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I'm very new here, but when I look at your safety plan, it strikes me as a very good starting point for parents whose child may be newly diagnosed with ASD. I'm still trying to figure out how to deal with my son, and he's 15, although we didn't get the dx until about 4 yrs ago. Live and learn. |
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bookwormde Snowy Owl


Joined: May 04, 2008 Posts: 127
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Posted: Thu May 21, 2009 6:39 pm Post subject: |
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That is a reasonably comprehensive template to individualize from, I am surprised that you do not address bullying prevention. In our state we can designate the area around our child as an area of special concern so the school has to “pay special attention” to indications or precursors of bulling in his enviroment.
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MorbidMiss Deinonychus


Joined: Jul 23, 2009 Posts: 313
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Posted: Thu Jul 30, 2009 6:02 pm Post subject: |
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Some schools are better than others. In Oklahoma the school took my husbands word for it that my parental rights had been terminated, and he really did not care what they did with our son as long as he wasn't embarrassed by being called at work. So the school just shuffled him off to the resource room when he was "disruptive" and he really did not get much help other than that.
In Colorado they have the Bridges Program, which is state funded, and my son gets a lot of help developing social skills and tools for dealing with bullies as well. Not to mention instead of the resource room he takes advanced math and reading and is in the G&T program. |
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Tory_canuck Phoenix


Joined: Jun 09, 2009 Age: 24 Posts: 1197 Location: Red Deer, Alberta, Canada
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Posted: Tue Aug 25, 2009 2:52 am Post subject: |
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Home > Ontario > Superior Court of Justice > 2005 CanLII 8749 (ON S.C.)
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Some Canadian Case Law regarding IEIPs and age.Schools here cannot discriminate on the basis of age and disability as outlined in the case.Please pardon the legalese and the structure whereas it is a legal document (judgment) _________________ Honour over deciet, merit over luck, courage over popularity, duty over entitlement...dont let the cliques fool you for they have no honour...only superficial deceit.
ALBERTAN...and DAMN PROUD OF IT!!
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SweXtal Deinonychus


Joined: Nov 12, 2006 Age: 39 Posts: 322 Location: Mora, Sweden
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Posted: Sat Aug 29, 2009 10:54 am Post subject: AS/ADHD/allergy |
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I can only answer for swedish local scools here. We've been a big pain in the ass for the schools here, since we've been active fighting for our kids since they where born.
Actually it's a mess here too, but the teachers are interested and engaged. Since school just started here, I have one child that simply decided after the first week, that school ends after lunchbreak because he was served pasta with soyaflour, one child that simply dissapeared from school and one that Loves the fact that everybody is as crazy as her.
This was about in a span of 1,5 week.
Nice though is that all of my wonderful kids have their own strathegies for coping with other "normal" persons and that they don't feel the slightest abnormal, and are themselves. and for that, I just thank "please fill in whatever you believe in".
One of my kids also have adrenaline about "everywhere" ready, since he's a fast cow milk proteine anafylactic and have been shot both by us parents and shot himself while dialing 112 on his Handiphone (a compaq Ipaq with custom software). He's also very cautious about what he both eat and touches, because he's tired of ambulances, hospitals, itching, rashes and everything that requires medical care.
I'm a bit sarcastic in this reply. |
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Phillips Butterfly


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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:29 am Post subject: |
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| Topic was too help full |
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Phillips Butterfly


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Posted: Thu Nov 12, 2009 11:30 am Post subject: |
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| And now i want to know weather my child can be safe with home tutors |
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Kallie Hummingbird


Joined: Nov 04, 2009 Posts: 20 Location: Canada
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Posted: Fri Dec 18, 2009 11:51 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm not a parent... But... I had a psychoeducational assesment done at a Children's Hospital, and it came back that I have NLD and possible AS that my psychologist is looking further into. I have an IEP at school. One of the teachers made it for me by using my psychoeducational assesment to help him. Before that I still had an IEP that mostly fit my needs as according to my previous diagnosis of ADHD. I live in Canada and I know that here parents legally have to sign an IEP for it to be classified as okay for the school to use. If you think something is wrong or things should be added or taken away legally you have that right to tell them that and have accomidations and goals changed and added and taken away. Good luck. |
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