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robo37
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| zen_mistress wrote: | | Robo37, have you told your parents how you are feeling? |
They know I'm depressed and am taking antidepressants, and I think my physiatrist has told them everything about Laura... so yes, but they have no idea that I'm about to kill myself and I'm not planning to tell them as that'll just get them upset and I don't want that. Yes, I know they'll just get even more upset when I do kill myself - but I'm trying my hardest to not think about that.
| zen_mistress wrote: | | Keep posting here, you have many people who are wanting you to stay alive. |
Well judging from this topic... more people seem to hate me... 
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LordoftheMonkeys
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| No, don't talk to her. 1. You'll go to prison, 2. It will just make you feel like you have to commit suicide to avoid going to prison. You will have lost the battle and the war. Send someone else to say "Robin wants to say he's sorry." It sounds like you've accepted the fact that you're never going to be with her, so really, you have nothing to lose at this point by just letting her go. I was going to say "forgetting about her", but I know from experience that that's not possible. If it does anything to persuade you not to step onto the railroad tracks and wait for a train, think about the mess people will have to clean up after it's done. |
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robo37
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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| Friskeygirl wrote: | Robo you have been reported to the mod's who will contact the authorities
Stop what your doing, you aren't accomplishing anything by doing this, please
leave this girl out of your plans, think of your family and the mess you will leave
them with, please stop this nonsense before you make a huge misstake |
Why have you told the mods? All I want to do is talk to her.
I've just spent three days typing up a topic to describe how I feel.
And all that happened is someone said that they'd get the authorities to get me arrested.
This isn't helping. 
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LordoftheMonkeys
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 4:41 pm Post subject: |
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| robo37 wrote: | | zen_mistress wrote: | | Robo37, have you told your parents how you are feeling? |
They know I'm depressed and am taking antidepressants, and I think my physiatrist has told them everything about Laura... so yes, but they have no idea that I'm about to kill myself and I'm not planning to tell them as that'll just get them upset and I don't want that. Yes, I know they'll just get even more upset when I do kill myself - but I'm trying my hardest to not think about that.
| zen_mistress wrote: | | Keep posting here, you have many people who are wanting you to stay alive. |
Well judging from this topic... more people seem to hate me... |
I don't hate you and I don't want you to die. |
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LordoftheMonkeys
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 4:46 pm Post subject: |
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| robo37 wrote: | | Friskeygirl wrote: | Robo you have been reported to the mod's who will contact the authorities
Stop what your doing, you aren't accomplishing anything by doing this, please
leave this girl out of your plans, think of your family and the mess you will leave
them with, please stop this nonsense before you make a huge misstake |
Why have you told the mods? All I want to do is talk to her.
I've just spent three days typing up a topic to describe how I feel.
And all that happened is someone said that they'd get the authorities to get me arrested.
This isn't helping. |
I don't think they're going to call the police. They don't do that with suicidal people. |
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Friskeygirl
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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If you make a threat of making this girl watch you commit suicide, that amounts too stalking and kidnapping
which is a federal offense, you are making it worse and you only have yourself to blame, you have been reported
too the site administrator, who can read your IP address and report you to your internet company then the
police and since you are forcing this girl too the fed's are automatically involved. So Stop It Now and please get
some help before you do anything, nobody here hates you, we are very concerned for your safety and the girls
well being.
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leejosepho
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 5:09 pm Post subject: |
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Let it go, Rob. Touch and Lord have said it all so very superbly, several others are also showing how much they care about you and about good things for you, and you really do still have a lot of years still ahead of you for growing and learning and doing well in life. I have been right there beside you in my own time, and I have survived just as well as you will. Your commitment and tenacity are impressive, my young fellow, and now you have a great opportunity to prove you are not a quitter!
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Friskeygirl
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I am trying to prevent him and standing by pretending you care is not helping, he needs to get help right now
This needs to be reported regardless of what you think, I reported him an hour ago, why didn't you, he's doesn't
want to listen too your empty platitudes he wants attention, well he's got mine I am listening, I don't agree with
what he wants to do, so I am spelling out what can happen by making a threats like this on a forum.
If he isn't stopped and he harms this girl its the fault of you and anyone else who didn't take the advantage of
reporting him
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TouchVanDerBoom
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There are so many things I want to add after reading what has unfolded after my last post but I'm not throwing fuel on this fire.
Everything I said before still stands, Robin. Nobody hates you, even the people expressing seemingly negative opinions are doing so based on their empathy for the position Laura would be in if you took her off the bus against her will.
We all want everyone involved to be safe and happy.
Have you even considered not doing it? Has anything any of us has said made you pause? Try to focus on the positive messages rather getting upset by the negative.
And feel free to PM me x
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LordoftheMonkeys
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:01 pm Post subject: |
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| Praetor2379 wrote: |
If this kid commits suicide, that's his own fault. Friskey did nothing wrong by reporting him. He STILL is going to meet her, even AFTER a restraining order. This kid has what's coming to him. He doesn't want to listen to us. By tommorow night he'll be in a jail cell. |
You obviously have no idea what an obsession feels like. It takes control of your life, dictates your every move and action. You think about it constantly, and your entire life revolves around it. It's very hard to let go. Why not try helping Robin through his hardships. If you don't want this kid to die, stop harassing him, for crying out loud! You're just making it worse. You've obviously never been in enough pain to want to kill yourself, and have no idea what it feels like, so I don't expect you to understand. Consider yourself lucky. |
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Praetor2379
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Friskeygirl wrote: | I am trying to prevent him and standing by pretending you care is not helping, he needs to get help right now
This needs to be reported regardless of what you think, I reported him an hour ago, why didn't you, he's doesn't
want to listen too your empty platitudes he wants attention, well he's got mine I am listening, I don't agree with
what he wants to do, so I am spelling out what can happen by making a threats like this on a forum.
If he isn't stopped and he harms this girl its the fault of you and anyone else who didn't take the advantage of
reporting him |
I agre with you, Friskey. I can't believe there are users here saying this is just an "Aspie expression of love". BS! This KID IS OBSESSED WITH THIS GIRL! He's going to do something to her. HE WON`T STOP! What is it with you people. This kid is either going to end up in jail or he`s going to harm this girl. And stop putting things in his head like saying she`s a b***h. That only helps objectify women even further. I mean come on, what the hell is wrong with you people on this forum. No wonder people think Aspies are a bunch of f****.
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Yupa
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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| robo37 wrote: |
Well judging from this topic... more people seem to hate me... |
Nobody hates you just for you. You do mention a disturbing obsessiveness and actions you want to take that are harmful, illegal, and immoral. I don't think any of us want you to kill yourself, but going through with some creepy, selfish plan to psychologically torture someone because you think you "love" her is wrong. That's what I think there is a problem with, and that's what you need to realize. If you end up in prison or legal trouble for your actions it will be even worse than killing yourself.
I don't think either is a path that you really want to take. |
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Praetor2379
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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| LordoftheMonkeys wrote: | | Praetor2379 wrote: |
If this kid commits suicide, that's his own fault. Friskey did nothing wrong by reporting him. He STILL is going to meet her, even AFTER a restraining order. This kid has what's coming to him. He doesn't want to listen to us. By tommorow night he'll be in a jail cell. |
You obviously have no idea what an obsession feels like. It takes control of your life, dictates your every move and action. You think about it constantly, and your entire life revolves around it. It's very hard to let go. Why not try helping Robin through his hardships. If you don't want this kid to die, stop harassing him, for crying out loud! You're just making it worse. You've obviously never been in enough pain to want to kill yourself, and have no idea what it feels like, so I don't expect you to understand. Consider yourself lucky. |
Oh my god, your an idiot. Clearly you didn`t read my previous post on this thread. Check that out first
How am I making it worse. He`s making it worse for himself by being unwilling to let this girl go. I know its hard, but it can be done, and must be done. This kid is going to go to prison. Plain and simple. How badly do you think he;s going to feel then, having to be araigned before a judge. Think before you speak.
We are trying to help him. But he needs to realize that he needs to let go, and only he can do that. Stop making excuses for him. Only he can let go of that.
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Greatsharkbite
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:18 pm Post subject: |
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You obviously have no idea what an obsession feels like. It takes control of your life, dictates your every move and action. You think about it constantly, and your entire life revolves around it. It's very hard to let go. Why not try helping Robin through his hardships. If you don't want this kid to die, stop harassing him, for crying out loud! You're just making it worse. You've obviously never been in enough pain to want to kill yourself, and have no idea what it feels like, so I don't expect you to understand. Consider yourself lucky. |
I know that I most definitely HAVE thought of killing myself and I know what it feels like to be depressed enough to do it. This kid on the other hand is trying to bring another person who has not personally caused any of his problems, into them.
His obsession is the cause, HE does need immediate help because some of us do know how bad obsessions can be. In this case tho, he is going way too far.
We care about him, therefore we want him to stop what he's doing and get help. Furthermore, I think reporting this to the Mods was the correct thing to do. I myself was going to do the same thing last night because threatening violence is never ok.
Even if he doesn't touch her, even if we're just talking about him killing himself here, he needs to go and seek help. His problems are bigger than he can deal with and simply put he needs the help of a professional. |
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robo37
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| Posted: Tue Nov 24, 2009 6:22 pm Post subject: |
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| Friskeygirl wrote: | | If you make a threat of making this girl watch you commit suicide, that amounts too stalking and kidnapping |
I am NOT going to force her to watch me kill myself, that would be a horrible thing to do. I don't know where you got that from.
I don't know why everyone is saying that I'm threatening to hurt her. The only thing I said about touching her at all is that I might initially hold her arm (without hurting her) so she doesn't run away but now I don't even think I'm going to do that. I'm just going to say 'I'm sorry', I'm not going to drag her off the bus and I'm certainly not going to make her watch me kill myself. 
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