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[quote="davidalan11235813"][quote="ReindeerRoger"][quote]"Honestly, I'm pretty sure most transvestites are hetero."[/quote] I think the one you're thinking of is that many drag queens are straight.[/quote] That's what I said, just differently worded. I think you're confusing the words transgender or maybe transsexual with transvestite. Transvestite just means someone who wears clothing meant for the opposite sex, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity (from the Latin "trans"-meaning across or over, and "vestitus"-meaning dressed).[/quote]
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Joker
Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:03 am
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Hmm I don't ever crossdress but I do wear womens fingernail polish some times the clear kind because it makes my fingernails looks all cool and shiny.
Dreamslost
Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:00 am
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I feel like i was born into the wrong body but i like women so technically i am a lesbian trapped in a male body and i make love much as lesbians do. Some love, others do not, but i feel very at home among all of the LGBT community since in mind and online i can be woman, an with understanding women helping i am pretty good. I began table top rpg where other gamers saw i am male which went to online and i just am.
I cant ever feel all the physical or go through some of their turmoils but other aspects i relate strong to women issues and support most very strongly. What seems to justify now are the tests that put my answers in among female responses more. So be what you feel like yu should be, real friends and those in spectrum will treat you as you wish to be treated. Online someplaces i am very fem, just as other places i am male. have tried to shave off all body hair and women have it easy in that regard. nd i love to wear women's panties they are much more comfortable then any male undies
i ay not have the look so seldome where but the feel is good.
Cerberus_01
Posted: Mon Apr 09, 2012 3:12 pm
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lol I would absolutly show you but we never took a pic of it (being that that was before the military eliminated don't ask don't tell didn't want hard evidence laying around). suffice to say that so long as I shave everyting (looks like you murderd a cat afterwords) and get the wig on I'm more than passible.
auntblabby
Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2012 4:09 pm
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^^^
i wanna see
Cerberus_01
Posted: Sun Apr 08, 2012 3:32 pm
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I'm strait, but do like to cross dress. It started off actually as a joke on the wife, she always said i had a great butt so I got dollyed up to mess with her head (see i have a better one than you, lol). As it turns out that lead to steamy relations and I actually sort of liked it. Later after i got used to it and on a dare me an the wife went out as 'girlfriends' and it was actually a lot of fun.
Bottom line, take things easy and have fun.
TheHouseholdCat
Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2012 10:11 pm
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Crossdressing is great. I love that it exists. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Which is what many people still seem to believe.
It would be great to see more men cross-dressing. It would be very liberating.
Endinglignt
Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 11:56 am
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When it comes to latin translations the doctor knows what he is saying. When the topic is about gender issues you can't beat a time lord(odds are the time lord had the other gender for a bit) and when it comes to gay/lesbian info you can't beat the guy that met both william shakespeare and captain jack harkness.
I am happy with all the info about so many people into this.
ReindeerRoger
Posted: Fri Mar 02, 2012 2:42 am
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That's what I said, just differently worded. I think you're confusing the words transgender or maybe transsexual with transvestite. Transvestite just means someone who wears clothing meant for the opposite sex, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity (from the Latin "trans"-meaning across or over, and "vestitus"-meaning dressed).
Oh geeze, you're completely right. Until now I thought it was just a semi-offensive but occasionally used label for transgender people. But I just looked it up, and indeed the etymology seems obvious now. Well, I guess having the graphic up doesn't hurt anything.
davidalan11235813
Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 11:07 am
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ReindeerRoger wrote:
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"Honestly, I'm pretty sure most transvestites are hetero."
I think the one you're thinking of is that many drag queens are straight.
That's what I said, just differently worded. I think you're confusing the words transgender or maybe transsexual with transvestite. Transvestite just means someone who wears clothing meant for the opposite sex, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity (from the Latin "trans"-meaning across or over, and "vestitus"-meaning dressed).
CrazyCatLord
Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 11:03 am
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davidalan11235813 wrote:
Honestly, I'm pretty sure most transvestites are hetero. I'm a bit sauced ATM and can't be arsed to do the research, but I am relatively sure that is the case.
I've read the same, and all crossdressers that I've talked to in Second Life were either hetero or bi. There is also a huge number of transgender / transsexual people who are hetero according to their birth sex (i.e., gay or lesbian according to their gender identity).
ReindeerRoger
Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 12:46 am
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according to kinsey et al, gay-straight is a continuum.
Kinsey isn't the cutting-edge in these matters, his report was written in like 1948.
Anyways, it isn't a continuum for everyone, and the scale doesn't represent the massive range of sexual orientations that exist very well.
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people can be versatile, including in what styles they like to affect.
Gender expression is a separate topic from both sexual orientation and sexual identity.
This one is homemade by some person, and even it isn't comprehensive. (Not to mention not everyone thinks this over to so much depth), but it's way better than the kinsey scale:
I saw what you were getting at though. The basic message is that gender play is awesome and means whatever you want it to mean.
auntblabby
Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 12:31 am
Post subject: Re: Straight but want to crossdress
visagrunt wrote:
DiscardedWhisper wrote:
It is my understanding that there are a good number of heterosexual males who enjoy dressing up in private with their girlfriend/wife. I've never met any, but I've read some material on the subject.
If you're worried that there's something wrong with you, there isn't. Some people make a lot of money crossdressing. Take Eddie Izzard, for instance. (It's not just an act, he does like to dress that way. And he's hetero.)
You are most certainly correct. I knew several straight men who enjoy cross-dressing--not least of whom is my own brother.
according to kinsey et al, gay-straight is a continuum. people can be versatile, including in what styles they like to affect. AFAIC, women have all the best clothing, men get the dregs.
ReindeerRoger
Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2012 12:24 am
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"Honestly, I'm pretty sure most transvestites are hetero."
I think the one you're thinking of is that many drag queens are straight. But on a related note, some transgendered/genderqueer people are straight and others are gay or some other orientation. (Is this what you meant?)
Drag queens are people of any description who play around with gender for any reason, generally only occasionally for fun or at parties or to perform. Transvestite refers to transgender people who undergo sex change operations, but anyways neither of these things give any indication of sexual orientation.
davidalan11235813
Posted: Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:59 pm
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Honestly, I'm pretty sure most transvestites are hetero. I'm a bit sauced ATM and can't be arsed to do the research, but I am relatively sure that is the case.
visagrunt
Posted: Wed Feb 29, 2012 5:08 pm
Post subject: Re: Straight but want to crossdress
DiscardedWhisper wrote:
It is my understanding that there are a good number of heterosexual males who enjoy dressing up in private with their girlfriend/wife. I've never met any, but I've read some material on the subject.
If you're worried that there's something wrong with you, there isn't. Some people make a lot of money crossdressing. Take Eddie Izzard, for instance. (It's not just an act, he does like to dress that way. And he's hetero.)
You are most certainly correct. I knew several straight men who enjoy cross-dressing--not least of whom is my own brother.
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