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<table border="0" cellpadding="3" cellspacing="1" width="100%" class="forumline"> <tr> <th class="thCornerL" width="22%" height="26">Author</th> <th class="thCornerR">Message</th> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>khaos</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 1:54 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">I am a gay FTM Aspie and I am totally in the closet. I have come out to a couple of people. My closests, that's it. If I were born male I would've been so much happier, I would've dated a lot more...maybe a bit more social. Idk, it's hard being this way and Aspie. I don't do anything to try and bring attention to myself. I would love nothing more than to transition...but just can't. At least not at this time. It eats away though.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>diniesaur</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Sat May 05, 2012 6:57 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody"></span><table width="90%" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="3" border="0" align="center"><tr> <td><span class="genmed"><b>ftm89 wrote:</b></span></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="quote"> <br />Everyone except my big bro tried to convince me not to feel trans, (how do you do that?) and be a girly heterosexual girl. Well, I'm not a girly heterosexual girl. I'm gay. <br /> <br />And I'm a guy. <br /></td> </tr></table><span class="postbody"> <br /> <br />UGH, I know that horrible pain! It makes me so angry. What's even <span style="font-style: italic">WORSE</span>, though, is when people like my stepmom try to convince me to just be a "badass chick." I am NOT a "chick," and my urge to have a male body, role, and social identity is NOT about being "cool" or "badass"! This gives me horrible, burning rage. I'd talk about it to some of the older Pagans, but unfortunately (and shockingly) the Pagan community can be judgemental towards the LGBTQQIA(...X...K...Z...R...C...) community, so I'm afraid. <br /> <br />ANGER!</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Mummy_of_Peanut</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Wed May 02, 2012 8:35 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody"><< Locked while I contact members regarding inappropriate posts >> <br /> <br /><< Update - Member contacted. Posts and references to them removed. Unlocked. >></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>ftm89</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 5:13 pm<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">I'm a gay FTM/intersex guy and for me coming out as trans was really difficult at first because I've always heard the typical "Oh, I'm so happy I got a princess for a daughter, isn't she pretty? Our own little doll." Well ah, my dad really went mad when I finally corrected him that hey, I'm not a girl and has never been. My biological gender might be female but I've never felt that way by myself, I never got to buy the clothes I wanted and when I finally got to, he had a fit. <br /> <br />But coming out as gay too was even worse. First I thought it was my trans-brain/autistic-brain that had a role in the prank of my sexuality or something, I really felt confused at the time but my therapist was good however, she really made me realize that I'm a guy and I like guys, not a big deal. Everyone except my big bro tried to convince me not to feel trans, (how do you do that?) and be a girly heterosexual girl. Well, I'm not a girly heterosexual girl. I'm gay. <br /> <br />And I'm a guy. <br /> <br />But before I figured everything out, I kinda got a little lost but now I'm stronger than ever. I'm a gay guy so bet it! <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" /> And I was happy to see that I weren't actually alone. Hello everyone! <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" border="0" /></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Ambivalence</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 5:24 pm<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody"></span><table width="90%" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="3" border="0" align="center"><tr> <td><span class="genmed"><b>diniesaur wrote:</b></span></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="quote">Actually, I'm bisexual, and in my female body I'm much more attracted to females, but I think that's because to have sex with a male they would probably have to insert a penis into one of my various orifices, and that feels wrong to me 1) because I don't like anal/oral, and vaginal would feel horribly wrong and 2) because I'd much rather be "on top" <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" /> </td> </tr></table><span class="postbody"> <br />My (FTM) boyfriend and (MTF-inclined) I take a "might as well use what you've got" approach. *happy grin* I tend towards passive meself (though I <span style="font-style: italic">wouldn't</span> necessarily link that to being trans - just to preference) but I ain't complaining. <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" /> It's probably worth your while giving it a go if you get the chance!</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Caesaran</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Wed Apr 04, 2012 4:32 pm<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: Meh...</span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Ehh.. <br /> <br />Im kind of in Xenogrounds here but I thinks it alright for Tomboys to be attracted to the same sex but it usually becomes a passing thing after so many years that they will start thinking "These girls are too bloody stupid", "Why isnt she going for it" or "these chics are too girly for my tastes", then comes "Guys are easier to get along with" thinking. <br /> <br />But hell, Lots of Guys would wish their GF was Bisexual because they think "mengaerie twai". <br /> <br />I personally would love to have a girl with some male interests such as Videogames and Anime. Living with a girl like that would be easy on me as well cuz I dont have to worry about buying stupid "fashion" clothes and I wouldnt mind her swiping my clothes all the time (I hate wearing clothes <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" border="0" /> ); I think make up is just useless on a girl because its unnatural. <br /> <br />Besides, I'd probably figure out ways to induce hypomania.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Bun</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 10:23 pm<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody"></span><table width="90%" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="3" border="0" align="center"><tr> <td><span class="genmed"><b>Pileo wrote:</b></span></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="quote">I'm not open really, but if people ask, I'll give an honest answer. People usually bring it back to me being trans. "If you're interested in men, why become a man? Sos stupid!" ಠ_ಠ</td> </tr></table><span class="postbody"> <br />Yeah, same, the therapist asked me that question, and I told her I'm interested in the idea of doing the bumming. <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" /> To me though it has to be with real organs, so it's just a fantasy.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Pileo</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 2:26 pm<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">I'm not open really, but if people ask, I'll give an honest answer. People usually bring it back to me being trans. "If you're interested in men, why become a man? Sos stupid!" ಠ_ಠ</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Joker</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 1:05 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">I would rather a girl be on top if I am going to have sex with one it feels the best also I went to therapy to and they though I showed sociopathic behavior but I was just pissed off cause I was forced to go to therapy after my mom got divorced.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Bun</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:50 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Same to you. <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" border="0" /></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>diniesaur</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:49 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody"></span><table width="90%" cellspacing="1" cellpadding="3" border="0" align="center"><tr> <td><span class="genmed"><b>Bun wrote:</b></span></td> </tr> <tr> <td class="quote">I had a lot more girls than guys/men, and my knee-jerk response to questions of sexuality is 'gay' (as in gay dude attracted to dudes), and I have to rationalise it with my choice in partners. <br /> <br />I've been to therapy to discuss gender, the therapist basically thought I was kidding her. I almost killed myself because of that 'joke' (ie - my inability to sustain a relationship with the girl I really loved). <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif" alt="Confused" border="0" /></td> </tr></table><span class="postbody"> <br /> <br />I hate when therapists don't take us seriously. Hopefully my upcoming therapy session will go well, and I hope any future ones you have go well, too!</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Bun</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:42 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">I had a lot more girls than guys/men, and my knee-jerk response to questions of sexuality is 'gay' (as in gay dude attracted to dudes), and I have to rationalise it with my choice in partners. <br /> <br />I've been to therapy to discuss gender, the therapist basically thought I was kidding her. I almost killed myself because of that 'joke' (ie - my inability to sustain a relationship with the girl I really loved). <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif" alt="Confused" border="0" /></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>diniesaur</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:37 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">You're a gay FTM, too? Let's be friends!! <br /> <br />Actually, I'm bisexual, and in my female body I'm much more attracted to females, but I think that's because to have sex with a male they would probably have to insert a penis into one of my various orifices, and that feels wrong to me 1) because I don't like anal/oral, and vaginal would feel horribly wrong and 2) because I'd much rather be "on top" <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_wink.gif" alt="Wink" border="0" /> <br /> <br />But I was never really "in the closet" with anything, except possibly being FTM, but I think it was more like I just didn't know, and then when I found out my mom kind of made me block it off.</span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row2"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Joker</b></span></td> <td class="row2" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:29 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Yeah we are in that sense I am greedy that's how my friends view my attraction to both genders <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_lol.gif" alt="Laughing" border="0" /></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> <tr> <td width="22%" align="left" valign="top" class="row1"><span class="name"><a name=""></a><b>Bun</b></span></td> <td class="row1" height="28" valign="top"><table width="100%" border="0" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0"> <tr> <td width="100%"><img src="http://cdn.wrongplanet.net/modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/icon_minipost.gif" width="12" height="9" alt="Post" title="Post" border="0" /><span class="postdetails">Posted: Mon Apr 02, 2012 12:25 am<span class="gen"> </span> Post subject: </span></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><hr /></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2"><span class="postbody">Cool! I mean, that we're similar in that sense. <img src="modules/Forums/images/smiles/icon_smile.gif" alt="Smile" border="0" /></span></td> </tr> </table></td> </tr> <tr> <td colspan="2" height="1" class="spaceRow"><img src="modules/Forums/templates/subSilver/images/spacer.gif" alt="" width="1" height="1" /></td> </tr> </table>
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