If someone you've been together with a while leaves you

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IWasWrong
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02 Jan 2013, 2:29 pm

How do you cope?

I can't stop thinking of her. The house is still filled with her things. Everything I do in life reminds me of her, reminds me how many times I let her down, how many times I was too tired and too stressed to see her pain?

I was so narrow minded, and I got so complacent, I let her slip through my fingers, and she's gone forever.

And whenever I beg for her to come back she won't. Now I can't contact her at all. Have never felt pain like this in my life. I look in the mirror and I'm ugly, and she was so beautiful, she was so perfect, and she was mine. Now she's not.

Can't eat, or sleep, or stop crying.



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02 Jan 2013, 2:36 pm

Wait a minute. You have an infant child together, and you can't contact her at all? How is that possible, legally?



BlueMax
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02 Jan 2013, 4:28 pm

I know this pain... man, you have my deepest sympathies. :cry:

I had a really good counselor (that was almost free!) If it weren't for her I'd have gone nuts! Not every counselor is good...

Hang in there... and get the help you need.

[safe A-frame man-hugs from a fellow survivor]