Kati wrote:
Maxine Aston writes in her book "The Other Half Of Asperger Syndrom" on page 61:
When a special interest is anacceptabl
................, sometimes the partner´s special interest is something the other partner feels total unaceptable....................
For instance, if he is obsessed in sex , pornographie (on the internet) or ather women, men in a sexual way........
.............. If your partner will not change and is also aware that this behaviour is unacceptable to you, than you have
to make a choice: do or do not want you the realationship to continue.
Tony Attwood wirtes in "The Complete Guide To Asperger Syndrom":
Men with asperger syndrom may consider pornogarphie as an authritativ guide book for sexuell activities.........
Page 308
I don't know...as a person with AS, I have generally found the books for partners of people with AS to be frighteningly negative toward the AS partner, so I would be skeptical of anything someone like that wrote. OTOH, AS or not, if his behavior is unacceptable and he won't or can't change it, you need to make decisions, just as I have to about my NT husband who won't accept my AS traits and insists that I change them.
~Kate
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