MissUniform619 wrote:
I have this problem. Im extremely sex obsessed to the point where its like an art for me!
i like your construction as stated above
you have really hit the nail on the head
i am obsessed with knowing and providing my partner(s) with sexual pleasure. my own is less important - it has been said many times to me (more or less these words) "If there is one more orgasm left in there you'll find it"
i get off in a really big way every time my partner orgasms
as i type this i realise that it hits the same (though way better) satisfaction points as doing extremely elegant computer programming, or writing beautiful and moving words (i was a speech writer/political communications professional for over a decade)
i get off on my audience's reaction
i also get positive feedback that tells me i am a worthwhile human being, and that something about me might be attractive (c.f. childhood beatings by schoolmates and my brother for my low self-esteem) - even though i am told i am attractive i am only slowly beginning to believe it might be true...
i adore women and want their attention. i have learned and studied everything about women i can. i have perfected my pitch/hustle script, and then enjoy the whammy after providing them with multiple orgasms. most of the women i have slept with have never had a male partner who was all that interested in their orgasms - and certainly not with the aspie focus on detail and endurance that i provide...
and that indeed is an art - finding one more orgasm
it's the relationship part that is more difficult. i can act out the scripts for days at a time, but the true relationship is more demanding
even my fiance who is a counsellor is finding it difficult to interact over the 6 months we have been living together - i have some glaring personality gaps (that i wasn't even aware were there). i'm working on identifying the gaps and the new rules for this relationship (we have been dating for 5 1/2 years, but living together is different)
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but, i don't want to cause too much thread drift
i just think that the relationship part is integral to discussion and understanding of my sexual obsession
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i would pose the question to others here: if you are sexually obsessive - what is the reaction of your partner(s)?
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