Kissing People On The Lips

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Ditto.

Quoting Saywhatyamean

Yes. That's how it is with me. Germs and too much intimacy. I do enjoy kissing and being kissed by my husband though. But I won't share an apple with him, or anything else where saliva swapping is concerned. Which makes no sense really. Just a quirk. I'll share the same cup or water bottle, but only with my husband. Like you say, what the heck.

Quoting Toughdiamond

Cuddling is good. I can do cuddling with my husband and kids. No one else.

Quoting Serenity


I went to Italy and didn't get pinched. But truthfully, I don't think I would have liked it anyway. Slobbers. Yuck. I knew a restaurant cook who used to slobber in the soupl

Quoting Anxiety


This thread is bringing up a lot of old memories. My father used to put his hand on our heads at the dinner table and then slowly but gently apply pressure. Whoever sat next to him got this treatment. I endured it and didn't make a fuss because I knew if I didn't react he would stop. My brother on the other hand, couldn't stand it and always put up a fuss, knocking my father's hand away. This sometimes led to an argument between the two of them. My father would also put his spoon into his coffee to get it hot and then put the hot spoon on our hands. It wasn't hot enough to burn, and again, I endured it because I knew it was my father's weird sense of humor and I would just shrug it off as that and give him as little a reaction as I could. He also used to sprinkle salt and pepper on our arm and then pretend to eat our arm. He would say, "Oh, that's such a nice arm. Let me eat that arm. We actually thought this was hilarious and asked him to do it again and again.

Last edited by cosmiccat on 13 Oct 2009, 11:54 am, edited 1 time in total.

Go Tim_Tex. Go pat2rome.

relatives KISS ON THE LIPS?
i remember my mother doing this when i was little, my sister and i hated it....she stopped. XD
the most we ever do here is kiss relatives on the cheeks, it's wierd enough. id imagine its quite good if its with your significant other....but not relatives!

No kidding. Idiot monkies.

Tim_Tex: Really? I enjoy lip-kissing much more. I'm a great kisser, that's one of the compliments I always get. My lips are soft and I'm kind of a foolish romantic, so I naturally play it out, almost like theatre. But it's not theatre, I'm very sincere. I don't know why it's like that, but I've always been the kind that make moments memorable. Too bad I'm such a social loser though, otherwise I could've been more successful in relationships. Not much for one-night-stands either, hence the foolish romantic. I bet you're more of the hardcore kind, yeah? You seem to be of the aggressive kind.

I'm beginning to have second thoughts about cheek kissing. All these responses are making me think. Even kissing on the cheek is taking a risk if you're at a large celebration and have tons of relatives to kiss. Just think, how many others have kissed the same cheek that you have kissed and left their germs there to breed on a hot moist surface and then hop on your lips and infiltrate your body?

I never kiss anyone on the lips, ever. Well if I had a girlfriend I would kiss her on the lips, that's it. Some of my relatives get one on the cheek and that's about it. Culturally I think that's about the norm for an Irish male, not AS-related.

Quoting Awithliving

I like that phrase. I think I will incorporate it into my personal lexicon.

Quoting Hector


That's interesting about the cultural norm of the Irish male. It falls in line with how I perceive my Irish husband and his brothers. I do think this kissing stuff is largely cultural.

i heard someone use the term "sub-monkies" i liked that SO MUCH. XD

i would love to kiss a guy on the lips, but id have to be comfy. i hope im a good kisser, because i have big lips.

cosmiccat: Yeah. I think "Idiot monkeys" is correct, is it?

Spazzergasm: I have kind of big lips too. Sort of (link).

yeah, you do,

and i just noticed yoru a SCANDY! there's a ton of them on thsi site.

What the hell is a "SCANDY"?

Edit: Oh yeah, a scandinavian. Yep, indeed I am.

I never kiss people, I've never kissed anyone on the lips in my life. I get kissed from family members on the cheek and I don't like it. I always try to pull my hand out before they come to close so they get the message that I would rather have a handshake and not a kiss but sometimes they don't get that either.

Don't worry, I didn't have my first kiss until this spring, and I got told I'm a good kisser. There's not really all that much to it. Don't stress when the time arises!

@ Awithliving.

Very strong and well-defined features you have. Your look is stark and charismatic. I think you could very well become an actor or a rock star if you were so inclined. BTW, your avatar reminds me of Waiting For Godot.

@ Spazzergasm
I knew my husband was meant for me the first time I kissed him. I was sixteen, he was seventeen. We are still together after 50 years. Prior to that, kissing boys made me queasy and I never wanted to see them again after I kissed them. It felt very natural with my husband.

Quoting Homer_Bob

I hate it when somebody kisses me on the cheek and it's wet. Ugh. I have to wipe it off immediately. I hated it when my grandmother kissed me because she had whiskers. Men with whiskers didn't bother me so much, but women with whiskers gross me out. Shudder. I think air kisses are the best but people seem to insist on the real thing.

I like kissing just fine with a lover - especially enjoy taking their lower lip between my teeth and pulling at it gently with a slight biting pressure - it's very sensual, especially at the end of a long tongue kiss.

But kissing as a social gesture is beyond my comprehension. I know in some cultures, it's quite common, but it took me years just to learn to tolerate social huggers without shoving them away in irritation. Having a stranger try to kiss me - especially on the lips - well it better be a smokin' hot female stranger.

And she better not stop there.