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10 Mar 2011, 10:55 am

Okay i could just be paranoid but i have seen the film 'rainman' and to a degree the relationship dustin hoffmans character has with tom cruises character in that movie reminds me of the relationship i have with my NT brother.

my brother for a joke once in a blue moon calls me "Rainman" becaue he knows i have aspergers.

Do you think if i was as bad as rainman i would not be typing what i am now? I know i am quircky and ecentric :D

i have NT friends and went to a normal mainstream school growing up (after my parents appealed agianst me going to a special school)



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10 Mar 2011, 11:01 am

Is it all in my head?

Well, yeah. Of course it is.



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10 Mar 2011, 11:03 am

I don't even know what you're asking.



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10 Mar 2011, 11:03 am

Well i do sometimes find myself sitting a table with my brother and he does not engross me in a conversation.



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10 Mar 2011, 11:16 am

There's at least two things going on - your thoughts and your neurology. BOTH are in your head.

Your thoughts you can work on, to some extent. New information, rethinking old information. You can make a lot of adjustments.

You neurology your sort of stuck with. Some drugs can change your brain chemistry, so even this isn't absolute.

But, yeah. It's all in your head.


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10 Mar 2011, 11:20 am

wavefreak have you ever had awkward relationships with your siblings?



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10 Mar 2011, 11:22 am

Jamesy wrote:
wavefreak have you ever had awkward relationships with your siblings?


Sure. But that wasn't your question.


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10 Mar 2011, 11:27 am

Jamesy wrote:
Do you think if i was as bad as rainman i would not be typing what i am now?

Yes, you would not. He would not be able to even entertain that kind of question.


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10 Mar 2011, 11:34 am

Well it was kinda my question because i mentioned the relationship with my brother can be difficult at times.



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10 Mar 2011, 11:38 am

Jamesy wrote:
Well it was kinda my question because i mentioned the relationship with my brother can be difficult at times.

Same here, and I have three brothers ...

1) Thinks somewhat like me but is afraid of that;

2) Thinks I am brilliant and is afraid of that;

3) Thinks somewhat like me but is not aware of that.


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10 Mar 2011, 11:40 am

The thingg is you haven't defined a question about your brother. You asked if it's all in your head which it obviously is since AS is a neurobiological disorder. You asked about rainman. You wouldn't even be on here if you were like that (which is pretty obvious). So ask the question you actually want answered.



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10 Mar 2011, 12:02 pm

leejosepho wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Do you think if i was as bad as rainman i would not be typing what i am now?

Yes, you would not. He would not be able to even entertain that kind of question.


I never saw any evidence either way that he'd be able to or not.


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10 Mar 2011, 12:13 pm

anbuend wrote:
leejosepho wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Do you think if i was as bad as rainman i would not be typing what i am now?

Yes, you would not. [Rainman] would not be able to even entertain that kind of question.

I never saw any evidence either way that he'd be able to or not.

The evidence is right there in his having asked the question.


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10 Mar 2011, 12:20 pm

leejosepho wrote:
anbuend wrote:
leejosepho wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Do you think if i was as bad as rainman i would not be typing what i am now?

Yes, you would not. [Rainman] would not be able to even entertain that kind of question.

I never saw any evidence either way that he'd be able to or not.

The evidence is right there in his having asked the question.


I wanted to say the same thing Anbuend did: I never saw any evidence either way that [Rainman] would be able to or not able to entertain that kind of question.



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10 Mar 2011, 12:23 pm

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I wanted to say the same thing Anbuend did: I never saw any evidence either way that [Rainman] would be able to or not able to entertain that kind of question.

Ah, I misunderstood ... and I am only assuming Rainman could not do that. :oops:


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10 Mar 2011, 12:26 pm

Oh great so i am rainman then :roll: