therange wrote:
It looks like you and I have been on this board for about the same amount of time. He's been on here for years, according to other posters, saying the same things over and over again. I understand this place is his venting ground. While some people go to a therapist, he comes here. But to a lot of us, it just ruins an otherwise great board where people have great discussions.
I don't know if you have, but if you haven't, imagine making a post that has nothing to do with Toad, and him hijacking the thread and responding to everyone to get attention for himself. I don't mean this as an attack or insult, but if he acted that way in a relationship, the relationship he says he desperately wants, the girl would run for her life.
I've given him pertinent advice many times, and he just ignores it and says I'm wrong and all the other posters are wrong. I feel bad that he hasn't gotten the help he needs, but its his decision in the end to be miserable.
Maybe he can't afford a therapist?
I really dont know enough of the situation to have a say. It just seemed people were really ganging up on him. I can understand hijacking a thread probably isn't a very nice thing to do.
I hate not being able to do anything to help. :/