Any guys feel like they act creepy around girls they like?

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02 Jan 2011, 8:52 pm

Towards the end of High School I made friends with this awesome girl
But I didnt know I was Aspie yet
I just didnt get how to make girls like me
I would always IM her
I would go everywhere I could with her and I payed way too much attention
I stopped coming around during my no friends period
And was afraid to go say hi anymore as we were good friends
Because I felt alomost creepy and stalkerish


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02 Jan 2011, 10:00 pm

Yes, I had my share of moments.

I've learned a great deal of those times.

Better luck next time.


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02 Jan 2011, 10:14 pm

I'm creepy in general.



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02 Jan 2011, 11:12 pm

I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.



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02 Jan 2011, 11:35 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.
'Tis a good thing you say that here.

I understand that all too well. :\



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02 Jan 2011, 11:39 pm

hale_bopp wrote:
I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.


I am still new to all this and I am taking in so much Aspergers knowledge
Yet I am very unfamiliar with the female side
I just assumed girls arent usually creepy
Based on my past experiences
Ive met 1 or 2 but usually more intimidating
I dont know if Ive met any Aspie girls
But I assume they would come off as cute at first


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03 Jan 2011, 12:01 am

countfred wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.


I am still new to all this and I am taking in so much Aspergers knowledge
Yet I am very unfamiliar with the female side
I just assumed girls arent usually creepy
Based on my past experiences
Ive met 1 or 2 but usually more intimidating
I dont know if Ive met any Aspie girls
But I assume they would come off as cute at first
Aspie woman are beautiful. :D Just look at the real life photo thread in the Getting To Know Eachother forum.



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03 Jan 2011, 12:41 am

I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.


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03 Jan 2011, 12:43 am

John_Browning wrote:
I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now


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03 Jan 2011, 12:48 am

countfred wrote:
John_Browning wrote:
I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now
You give me hope. :(



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03 Jan 2011, 1:10 am

Jonsi wrote:
countfred wrote:
John_Browning wrote:
I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now
You give me hope. :(

But living at my parents because I am unemployed and cant contribute at the moment
I dont suggest marriage if you havent learned how to take care of yourself
I should be on Jerry Springer
"My women kicked me out cause I gots the aspergers disease yall"


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03 Jan 2011, 1:13 am

Eh, I just want some one to experience life with and to give and get love. :\



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03 Jan 2011, 3:16 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I act creepy around guys I like, goes both ways.

I am awkward and overly silent. They think im weird.

Yeah I used to be like this, and the more I liked them the worse it was. Terrible paradox. I guess its because we become a bit nervous, not ideal for being conversational. But in reality loads of people do it, I suspect it's almost normal.



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03 Jan 2011, 3:32 am

countfred wrote:
I just assumed girls arent usually creepy


If it makes you feel better i've been called creepy by males and females a lot in my life.



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03 Jan 2011, 3:57 am

hale_bopp wrote:
countfred wrote:
I just assumed girls arent usually creepy


If it makes you feel better i've been called creepy by males and females a lot in my life.
I saw your pic in the post a pic page
I guess a book really cant be judged by the cover


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03 Jan 2011, 12:48 pm

countfred wrote:
Jonsi wrote:
countfred wrote:
John_Browning wrote:
I eventually learned a little about what might make someone creeped out, so now I'm more likely to be seen as annoying than creepy when I screw up.

I know what you mean
Im actually married now
You give me hope. :(

But living at my parents because I am unemployed and cant contribute at the moment
I dont suggest marriage if you havent learned how to take care of yourself
I should be on Jerry Springer
"My women kicked me out cause I gots the aspergers disease yall"


How were you able to find someone that loves you when you're living at your parents and are unemployed? Because I'd really like to know...