Sheerboredom wrote:
Okay so I finally asked out this girl who I think is cute. Well you know the lady's man that I am all smooth and such you know asked her if she would like to see a movie sometime. So well her response was I don't know.
How do I proceed from here, should I assume she meant no, yes, or I don't know? This is the closest answer to a yes I have ever gotten so I don't know how to proceed.
Sometime?? Would you like to go see a movie sometime??
You just told that girl that
YOU don't know if YOU want to go! LOL OMG *blush* done that!
She merely answered you with the same.
Besides, which movie? which night? which showing? are you going to try to hold her hand during the movie? put your arm around her?
what if you both hate it?
what if only one of you hates it and the other likes it?
what if one says likes but probably doesn't
(I'm meaning the movie here)
I'd recommend having some coffee or lunch, and small talk a while.
find out what kind of movies she likes, when she needs to be home (work or school or dad?)
find out what she hasn't seen and what she'd like to.
But for god's sakes don't drill her with all this stuff, just chat.
TELL her you'd like to take her to lunch/coffee (name a day within 2 days, tomorrow or next)
If she
really can't she'll probably counter-offer a different day (you still buy) =)
It'll help a lot if you blush, but keep at it -women love to see a man squirm, it'll make her day. =)
If she gives you some wishy-washiness ask her about a different (specific) day, if it's still lameness just say "ok, maybe later" (that's just an exit, you don't need to mean it) and move on to greener gals.
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