Does anyone actually look for woman with a personality?

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MCalavera, I am going to have to agree with you on this one. b9? It sounds like awareness or perception of something by a person, is what constitutes part of their personality? But I could be wrong. After all, I have been head f****d a lot.

I sure do a good looking woman without personality is boring!

I tend to be attracted to the shy types as well, but sometimes I have a hard time telling if a person is really shy or if they're just independent/self-reliant.
Shyness can be overcome once you get them to open up to you, but the independent ones have no real need for emotional intimacy so you are forever having to coax their feelings out of them.

personality is all that matters to me at first. a person becomes attractive over time because of their personality. i have a bug in my facial recognition software--that may be why.

I like to find a lady that meets in the middle: had looks and a good personality. I'm not too picky though, just I prefer a gal who can take care of her body.

I think the way that this needs to be framed is not "I find people without personality boring" and replace it with "If I find someone boring, I rationalize it by telling myself that they 'have no personality.'" Honestly, it's kind of sick.

Of course I do.

Good looking women are abundant, that's not the problem.

A personality that I can truly connect to is not as common.

And it goes beyond "oh, she's not physically attractive, but she's nice...."

I mean an overall character that is completely different from any other girl I've met,
that has a personality which is just about strong in all aspects and naturally commands respect.

i do not really like strong personalities because they clash with my intentions.
if someone is not like me, then i think they are incorrect in being how they are (bad i know).
i do not have to run ideas past other people's ears because i pay no attention to what they respond with.
maybe it is a bit different on this site, but in reality, my wall is impregnable. except for tammy.

My goose friend has got an awesome personality.
He is always making friends with human families
and really enjoys being near human babies
He's so cool
I've never seen him hiss
ever

The girlfriends I've liked the most are open minded/ non strong personalities that enjoy having deep conversations. Trivial gossip and narcissist types repulse me, although I can forgive some if she's cute Theres a funny scene from American psycho that talks about this

I hope so. I have too much personality.

I think personality is very important..i am shy but i like girls who can have a laugh and are more out going than me
I think as i am an introvert..finding a person who can bring me out of my shell would be better..as i do like a good laugh...but i feel that being
with a shy girl would be hard work if both of you are the same..can you imagine the two of you sitting with not that much to say to each other because of shyness..a lot of hard work i think!

Almost everyone ever? Anyone seeking a long-term relationship is going to favour somebody who has personality traits they deem desirable. Just because they are not traits you yourself find interesting doesn't mean that they have no personality at all.

Also, what is this "strong personality" people keep mentioning and why is it considered a negative?

Personality is probably the most important thing. The trouble is finding someone like me. It's hard to find someone I feel some kind of connection with. That is the biggest problem for me with OKC; I don't see many of them having the same personality as me. Most of the girls on OKC seem boring to me.