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curtis122
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12 Nov 2009, 5:57 am

Iv been with my NT girlfriend for around a month and I cant help but notice things are starting to go flat our conversation seems to be going mundane and there does not seem like much intrest in our conversations.When I try to liven things up by talking aobut somthing more intresting. She tels me she is not intrested then we get back to the same old converstaion (usally small talk) .

She does not realy call me pet names anymore E.G hun ect and she does not realy show me any verbal affection anymore.

Is this normal? What can I do to make the situaiton better?



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12 Nov 2009, 5:37 pm

Speak to her and let her know of your concerns. You never know, she might not think there is a problem. Is she still affectionate with you in any other way i.e. do you still hug each other etc? If so, she might not feel the need to be verbally affectionate or think there is a problem. Just be calm when you tell her your concerns and try to keep the conversation in this manner as I'm sure the last thing you want is for it to turn into an argument.


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curtis122
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13 Nov 2009, 6:49 am

Thanks for the advise I shall do that