hale_bopp wrote:
Keeno wrote:
hale_bopp wrote:
You've got me curious - what nationalities are you attracted to/not attracted to?
I am probably the same. I come from Oceania, and would probably be more attracted to say, a white American as opposed to a white say.. Russian? I guess its partly a cultural thing, not just nationalities.
Attracted to: UK (my own country after all), US.
Not particularly attracted to: effectively everywhere else.
As I say, not a matter of not finding them attractive, just not having a hormonal response.
So its a fetish then? I mean if its more than attraction.
Re: Asians - I really don't know. Some white women love Asian men, but its a lot more common for white Men to love Asian women, guess maybe its to do with how men are more visual creatures than women?
I wouldn't exactly say it's a fetish since a fetish unless that person has idealistic ideas in how that person would behave which some men do. There are many guys who not only find asian women attractive but have this belief that they act more feminine than western women.
As for me physical attraction to asian men just like most men of any creed seems to come natural to me. I've often wondered if it is more of a cultural thing than an attraction thing whenever one dismisses a person based on their ethnicity or nationality. Then again it's always fun to build up these exotic fantasies pertaining to the other/same gender. So I don't know exactly as they may sort of overlap. I know most men seem to connect a woman's specific creed to a certain behavior or stereotype. Not that I'm saying women don't do it but whenever you talk to a guy about his dream girl, he'll seem to connect her nationality to a certain rewarding behavior. So there could be some element of fetish going on. I knew a guy who would always talk about how asian women were better at being women than westernized women. However lol he had been divorced three times to the women he had married from abroad.
Even though I might like to develop exotic fantasies for guys, I usually keep reality and fantasy seperate. I could not develop a relationship with any guy no matter how attractive he is unless there was an emotional connection. In other words, I'd rather be with a guy whom I could relate and connect to than a good looking guy who is shallow. So I think we women tend to aim more for the personality than the looks. But again, women's ideals are just as diverse as men's ideas of attraction. I find this forum isn't really the best place in finding out what women and men in general are attracted to as it seems most of the ideals are rooted back when society was much different in its time.
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