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08 May 2010, 3:12 pm

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I've been thinking about this issue today. As an English learner I came across many idioms. I take things literally sometimes but not idioms, I don't know when people are joking. When I read about having a green thumb for the first time, I didn't know what it could mean but didn't think I should take this literally. But when my husband told me recently that we could have black walls in our bathroom, I said it wasn't a good idea since I didn't know he wasn't serious then. Some people like dark walls... Anyway...
I wonder if NTs can guess what does for example a green thumb mean or do they have to learn about it from somebody? Is it something natural to know the meaning of idioms or we all learn it? Does anybody take idioms literally? Do you know that something is an idiom and do you understand it naturally?


If it's an idiom, such as green thumb, I figure it out from context.

Oddly enough, "green thumb" is one of the very few things in this thread that is an example of something that shouldn't be taken literally. Most of the examples given are of things that should be taken literally but you have to correctly guess the referrent based on what is most likely. Out of a choice of many possible referrents, people just guessed the wrong one. For example, somebody gave the example of a "no standing" road sign. They do mean that literally. No standing is allowed at that spot. But they don't tell you what exactly is not permitted to stand there. You must guess. The correct guess of referrent is " vehicle". The incorrect guess of referrent is "person". But in any case they mean that the vehicle shouldn't stand there. Standing doesn't require legs.

I don't remember exactly when I learned the idiom green thumb, or any other English idioms (I'm a native speaker, so it was long ago). Something I enjoy is hearing translated idioms from other languages and seeing if I can figure them out from context. Sometimes I can. Sometimes I can't. Sometimes the context is so culture-specific that a native speaker not only has to explain it to me but also explain the context that gave rise to the idiom because it's not part of my (American) culture. I work with a lot of people from around the world who speak a variety of languages. One of the things we do for fun when things get slow at work is trade idioms, to see whose idioms would be the weirdest if taken literally.


Thanks for the explanation! :) It always confuses me when I think of taking things literally.


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08 May 2010, 9:41 pm

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One of the first instructions stated "rinse with water before tasting". I took this to mean that I should rinse the marshmallows before tasting and did so.


What did it mean? Rinse your mouth? They should have written that if that was the case. It's an ambiguous instruction.


I agree. It's not so much taking things literally, as misinterpreting the object of the instruction, since it wasn't specifically stated. They did literally want you to rinse with water before tasting- they just didn't specify rinsing your mouth rather than rinsing the marshmallows.


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08 May 2010, 9:49 pm

I take things literally a lot. My mom is really annoyed with it. I feel a lot of people think I'm stupid & talk down to me because I get things confused. Also lots of people tell me that I am being difficult & they think I'm pretending to get things confused to be lazy or something. When I was in elementary school; a lot of people thought I was mentally ret*d :cry:


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13 May 2010, 12:07 pm

When I was in my 20's this girl told me she liked me because I was different. She said she was use to being around different people because she has a brother with downsyndrome. I felt like she was comparing me to someone was mentally ret*d or was saying I was ret*d. So I got back at her by telling people that the miscarage she had was really a lie she was telling, trying to hide the fact she had an abortion. Turned out it was the truth and she never talked to me again and demanded I tell her who told me. My friends said they were always afraid to talk crap to me because of my ability to make stuff up and get people to believe it . :twisted: I still regreat telling people that about her.



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13 May 2010, 1:06 pm

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My first memory of taking something literally is when I was about 4 years old and my mom said she had a frog in her throat.


I can top that one. Never tell a very literal 4 year old that it's "raining cats and dogs". They managed to keep me from going out to catch one as it fell but weren't able to convince me that the very wet cat on our front step after the storm A: didn't fall out of the sky and B: wasn't intended just for me.



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13 May 2010, 2:00 pm

I remember when I was in 5th grade and we were going to get our pictures taken and we had to fill out a card which had a choice of backgrounds; well one of them was "lasers" so I thought "oh great, I can ask the technician all sorts of questions about how they work and, ... ect". To say the least I was sorely disappointed when I realized it was only a picture of lasers on canvas that I would be standing in front of.


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13 May 2010, 2:18 pm

dadelus wrote:
I had a sort of amusing experience the other day at work. I was part of a taste panel testing marshmallows. I was told to read through all the instructions before beginning.
One of the first instructions stated "rinse with water before tasting". I took this to mean that I should rinse the marshmallows before tasting and did so.

A few years ago I helped a police friend of mine do some training of new recruits in how to arrest a person. My friend knows how I can be and asked if I could be "very literal" for the recruits. I don't recall all the phrases the recruits uttered but do recall my friend sitting on the ground laughing.
Actually, I would have rinsed them too before eating them.



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13 May 2010, 2:27 pm

I used to get upset when I'd look out the classroom window, and see the parking space for the minibus empty. I'd immediately think "no minibus," then "nominibus", and before I knew it I was obsessively declining Latin nouns, and unable to concentrate on anything else.

It still happens sometimes, when I see a minibus pull out of a parking space... you'd be surprised how often that happens.



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13 May 2010, 6:05 pm

redwulf25_ci wrote:
Never tell a very literal 4 year old that it's "raining cats and dogs". They managed to keep me from going out to catch one as it fell but weren't able to convince me that the very wet cat on our front step after the storm A: didn't fall out of the sky and B: wasn't intended just for me.


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