Aspie dating and Aspie......

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Snowy Owl
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Joined: 9 Aug 2011
Age: 35
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Location: Connecticut

16 Aug 2011, 11:26 pm

I think an As dating and AS is more dependent on who those people are. Both having AS does give a strong point in that both people already have an understanding of what the other person might be going through, and it is hard for most typical people, AS or not, to understand something they have never experienced. But for those people to have a good relationship, I think it is more important on how they treat their own AS. Years ago, when I was in the only relationship I felt love, I did have a lot of problems connected to AS. But as it went on, because of how much we cared for each other, I made myself change man of the problems I had, even if just making it a bit neutral so it was not as noticeable. In the end, she actually forgot often that I had it.

While that relationship did end, it showed me that how I treated it was just how important as how she treated it. You can't just get together and expect everything to be instantly fine without some work, just like in most relationships.


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