I'm a guy, but I play both male and female characters in any game that allows one to customise one's own avatars (Western RPGs, The Sims, etc).
In WoW I had many characters of both sexes, but my favourite two were probably my male undead shadow priest and my female draenei hunter. I liked my priest because he looked evil and badass, whereas I loved my hunter because I found her sexy and spunky. Ignoring the hooves, horns and tail, draenei females had the best body shape.
In other RPGs like Mass Effects 1&2, Fallouts 1-3, Morrowind, Oblivion, Dragon Age: Origins, Vampire: The Masquerade and Jade Empire, I tend to make both men and women. I think the only classic RPG series I've played in which I haven't made a female character is the Baldur's Gate series. I stuck with my male mage throughout that entire saga, and I didn't have the strength to play through it all again. Someday.
When building and roleplaying characters, with men I tend to make them similar to myself, but an idealised version. With women, I tend to make them into someone I'd be attracted to, both looks and personality-wise. I took that to its logical extreme in The Sims 3, where I literally recreated myself and my ideal hypothetical girlfriend, then got them married and played through three generations of their progeny.
By the way, is DeaconBlues a Steely Dan reference?
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