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31 Jul 2010, 7:44 pm

considered maybe deep down you're secretly bi :lol: ?
maybe you should try one night of not fighting the urges to see how it goes :P


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31 Jul 2010, 7:48 pm

What about her behaviour is giving you these vibes?


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31 Jul 2010, 7:50 pm

Seanmw wrote:
considered maybe deep down you're secretly bi :lol: ?
maybe you should try one night of not fighting the urges to see how it goes :P


:roll: maybe you should bum a guy and see how it goes

even if she is gay/bi that doesnt automatically mean she likes you. and if she does just treat it like you would a boy who you're not interested in?



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31 Jul 2010, 7:50 pm

No! Don't say that. I have no urges. Well, I have urges to leave. XD

It's hard to say. I just have the feeling. other than that, she asked me if I'd be attracted to her if she was a lesbian, and she said her mom thinks she's a lesbian, and she's quite touchy. And compliments me on my looks a lot. And likes to talk about self pleasure (in a scary way! :P) And she said she'd not be a lesbian because she likes guys too much, but the only reason she's not bi is because it's selfish, she thinks...
She just likes me too much! She quotes me and admires me way more than makes me comfortable...



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31 Jul 2010, 7:51 pm

If it's only 2 more nights, then you could certainly wait it out. If something happens, then let her know. If not, let it be.

(Then again... she's been away from her BF... maybe she just needs some alone time to get off or something...)


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31 Jul 2010, 7:53 pm

OneStepBeyond wrote:
Seanmw wrote:
considered maybe deep down you're secretly bi :lol: ?
maybe you should try one night of not fighting the urges to see how it goes :P


:roll: maybe you should bum a guy and see how it goes

even if she is gay/bi that doesnt automatically mean she likes you. and if she does just treat it like you would a boy who you're not interested in?
i was joking :lol:


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31 Jul 2010, 7:54 pm

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No! Don't say that. I have no urges. Well, I have urges to leave. XD

It's hard to say. I just have the feeling. other than that, she asked me if I'd be attracted to her if she was a lesbian, and she said her mom thinks she's a lesbian, and she's quite touchy. And compliments me on my looks a lot. And likes to talk about self pleasure (in a scary way! :P) And she said she'd not be a lesbian because she likes guys too much, but the only reason she's not bi is because it's selfish, she thinks...
She just likes me too much! She quotes me and admires me way more than makes me comfortable...
yes, follow the urges :o :P


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31 Jul 2010, 7:54 pm

Spazzergasm wrote:
No! Don't say that. I have no urges. Well, I have urges to leave. XD

It's hard to say. I just have the feeling. other than that, she asked me if I'd be attracted to her if she was a lesbian, and she said her mom thinks she's a lesbian, and she's quite touchy. And compliments me on my looks a lot. And likes to talk about self pleasure (in a scary way! :P) And she said she'd not be a lesbian because she likes guys too much, but the only reason she's not bi is because it's selfish, she thinks...

Sounds like she's bi, but isn't dealing with it. If she carries on that way, you should inform her that it's fine to be bisexual, but also emphasise that you're straight.

Then again, maybe you're subconsciously flirting with her and your conservative upbringing is holding you back from sweet, sweet sapphic loving. Seriously though, it's not great that you're actually scared of meeting a gay person, as you say, "face to face". They're just people. If she's attracted to you, I'd take it as a compliment.


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31 Jul 2010, 7:56 pm

Gosh, Sean! You'd love to know we got it on wouldn't you... :eew:

Ugh, I was hoping you'd brush my worries off as silly. UGH. Not fair. I feel so bad being so uncomfortable.



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31 Jul 2010, 7:59 pm

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Gosh, Sean! You'd love to know we got it on wouldn't you... :eew:

Ugh, I was hoping you'd brush my worries off as silly. UGH. Not fair. I feel so bad being so uncomfortable.
as i said to onestepbeyond, i was joking :lol: :lol:


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31 Jul 2010, 8:01 pm

Suurrreee.

Well, I have to go to bed. *grumpy look* Goodnight. I am wearing shorts to bed.



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31 Jul 2010, 8:02 pm

Seanmw wrote:
Spazzergasm wrote:
Gosh, Sean! You'd love to know we got it on wouldn't you... :eew:

Ugh, I was hoping you'd brush my worries off as silly. UGH. Not fair. I feel so bad being so uncomfortable.
as i said to onestepbeyond, i was joking :lol: :lol:
i'm sure things will go fine if you just explain your concerns to your friend :)


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31 Jul 2010, 8:04 pm

Spazzergasm, if she's a close enough friend and you don't want to lose her friendship, just be honest with her. Come right out and ask her if she's bi-sexual.

Of course you'd have to pick the right time and ask her delicately.

Also be honest with her about your sexuality. Hopefully you can both have a laugh about it. You seem to have an amazing sense of humour.


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31 Jul 2010, 8:04 pm

But that's SO awkward!



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31 Jul 2010, 8:05 pm

Spazzergasm wrote:
Suurrreee.

Well, I have to go to bed. *grumpy look* Goodnight. I am wearing shorts to bed.


Night, night. :P


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31 Jul 2010, 8:05 pm

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Spazzergasm, if she's a close enough friend and you don't want to lose her friendship, just be honest with her. Come right out and ask her if she's bi-sexual.

Of course you'd have to pick the right time and ask her delicately.

Also be honest with her about your sexuality. Hopefully you can both have a laugh about it. You seem to have an amazing sense of humour.


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