Hi there,
Although my mother and one or two doctors have said I might have AS or PDD-NOS, I consider myself neurotypical because I just don't have enough of the symptoms (although I did somewhat when I was younger). At any rate, not all of the doctors could agree and if I do have ASD, it's a marginal case.
My partner's another story.
After being with an Aspie partner for 5 years, I decided to join. Maybe someone on this board can help me help the one I love.
I was afraid at first that I'd just be greeted with "just accept him the way he is and don't try to change him," and completely rebuffed with no answers, but all that line of thinking did was leave me empty-handed.
I hope I can find some answers. He's an extremely talented guy with a lot to give the world, if he can just overcome some of his obstacles.