Arman_Khodaei wrote:
Some girls that work at such places are just nice that way. What you have described sounds like girls I've met in the past who have worked in coffee shops or other such places. I thought they were into me, but found out otherwise. But, you never know. Perhaps, she is into you. It is hard to tell you. I would ask her if she would like to have coffee sometime to get to know you or something. Or, you can try the note. I'm not very sure. This is also hard for me.
this brings up a good point.
being friendly & agreeable towards the customer is typically part of the job.
She might not see what she's doing the same way you do.
A compliment here and there is hardly an indicator of genuine interest, especially if she works in such a job.
I think the note is a good idea though just in case.
It's not too assertive and gives her some time to think on it.
Where on the other hand, if you say it verbally, she may feel like she is being put on the spot, or pressured, and may react negatively just because it's put her off-balance and as a reflex reaction to indecision.