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emlion
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04 Jan 2011, 2:06 pm

Volodja wrote:
I don't buy the whole "the one" idea as in there being one person in the whole world that you should be with. But I think emilion was saying the one person you CHOOSE to be with. As in if she'd been born in Kuala Lumpa she'd probably be with someone other than her current boyfriend and possibly see him as "the one" instead, but in her life as it is, she has found this particular guy and wants to be with him only / sees him as her "one".

obviously I may be wrong about what emilion meant, but that is how I see it myself anyway - I would like to meet a woman I would want to spend th rest of my life with if possible


yes! i didn't mean you're fated to be with one particular person.
a person becomes the one when you fall in love with them deeply.



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04 Jan 2011, 6:03 pm

The "one" is a creation of popular culture. It leads to false expectations. If you like the person, go for it. Just don't fall for that pop culture "The One" BS.