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Jutty

07 Nov 2007, 9:26 pm

when i have more time i'll read this.



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07 Nov 2007, 10:19 pm

I don't really have a specific age group that I'm attracted to, apart from the fact that I'm not normally attracted to people who are younger than myself. (My ex-boyfriend is 8 days younger that me, but that hardly counts.)
The last person who I found seriously attractive is one of my lecturers, who is 48. He is tall, has good posture, nice eyes (bright blue and penetrating), good facial bone structure and a brilliant mind. All of that is extremely attractive.


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07 Nov 2007, 10:48 pm

I will be 28 next month, and I prefer people in the 25-35 age range.

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07 Nov 2007, 11:53 pm

the first girl i was attracted to was 17 and i was 19-20 she had a brain liked similar anime's, and was kind of a social loners she had friends but only a few. our relationship never got past friends when I confessed, it ended up she was asexual and someone before me was shot down as well . we remain friend over email because she's at MSU currently.

The woman I'm currently attracted to is 28, and I'm 21 now. She once again has a brain, and is very conservative politicly, a church goer , and more socially outgoing. so I'd say at current it's 50/50. and rremains to be determined which I'm more attracted to yet.



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08 Nov 2007, 12:15 am

I pretty much go +/- 3 years (i'm 19)...



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08 Nov 2007, 3:33 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
If you're Male, do you find yourself attracted to older women? Also, are some of you seeking younger mates?

I am only interested in girls who are at least somewhat younger than me, preferably 1-4 years younger. The thought of dating an older person seems depressing.



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08 Nov 2007, 9:48 am

I like younger women, but I find it difficult to find younger girls with brains. (I'm only 28.)


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08 Nov 2007, 1:02 pm

yeah try being 18 again :roll:
f**k I hate my age



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15 Nov 2007, 11:32 am

I'm attracted to older men, mostly in their mid to late 20s, sometimes older. Kind of dangerous considering my age (17), but I figure I'll be okay if I keep it confined to fantasy.



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15 Nov 2007, 2:16 pm

IdahoRose wrote:
I'm attracted to older men, mostly in their mid to late 20s, sometimes older. Kind of dangerous considering my age (17), but I figure I'll be okay if I keep it confined to fantasy.


Ya, I'd highly recommend keeping it in fantasy until your birthday.


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15 Nov 2007, 2:58 pm

IDK for sure,i've found more women my age attractive than women a few years older or more,though the older women are usually more mature and competent than the ones my age.

I hven't really though about it.


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