cyberdad wrote:
I guess I'm living proof you can fake NT behavior so well that you fool yourself.
I fooled myself, but it's becoming increasingly obvious that while I learned some things (like how to socialize to a certain extent - and by that I mean how to have conversations with people) that a lot of things were just awkward or difficult all along, and I wasn't really all that good at faking it, I just either didn't know, or if I was aware that there was something that put people off or whatever, I blamed it on other factors.
I want to say I basically had no idea, which is at its base true, but I have had hints here and there over the past 14-15 years I think (from the first time I realized I do palilalia, to the time I realized that Asperger's is characterized by intense interests and monologues, and my tendency to somehow manage to spot other autistic people on forums and then get into mutual flame wars with them over semantics without consciously realizing they were autistic until we were up to our eyeballs, and I realized "wait, this is just like that argument I had with X.").
After I started researching the possibility seriously - I'd been convinced but ignored it three years ago - I've had people tell me they suspected because it's apparently obvious in how I write.
So, I fooled myself but I was apparently easy to fool.