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These are all just problems nobody wants to face. People want to pretend it's recent so it doesn't seem quite so bad. Truth is the only way to really stop it is intervention.

When I was 12 there were three girls who were always exposing themselves but it was only lookee no touchee kind of stuff real innocent stuff. They were trying to out do each other to see who was the most shocking. It was always at my friend's house we had a fort set up under his above ground pool. We had stolen plywood blocking the front and sides so no one could see us but we also could not see someone coming in the fort. One of the girl's mom's came looking for her daughter and busted everyone she called all of our parents. My younger brother and I got the hell smacked out of us for being there and not stopping them from making fools out of themselves. My dad said "he raised us better than how we behaved" we were not allowed to hang out with them unless an adult was present or we were in the open where we could be seen by everyone. They even told the bus driver to keep the three girls in the front of the bus.

My dad was a little cautious about the hole thing because the part of West Virginia where he and my mother came from it was not unheard of girls being pregnate at 12 or even married at 13 or 14. When everyone was reassuring my dad it was harmless kid stuff he would scare them with tales of what went on in the mountains West Virgina. My friends would tease us by saying "If your dad's stories are true they should call it West Vagina." Funny thing is my dad made me hang out with these kids so he put me in that situation I would of rather of been at home watching Kung-fu theater or WWF wrestling by myself.

Fantastic News. Problem solved, I've been forgiven. Also trying to go cold turkey quitting masturbation. It really does screw with my life.

Maybe you made lego versions?

Origami is much more elegant than legos for that.

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Well I think that's good that you told her about it but I see you're only 15. Personally I think that's too young to be sexually active, but if you insist on being so, you need to educate yourself on STD's and STD prevention. I had a friend who contracted HIV when he was 17.

I think you should probably speak with a counselor about your difficulties. It's not unusual for teenagers to have relationship issues but it's a bit like navigating a ship through the North Sea in foggy conditions. The changes going on in your brain at the moment as it matures into it's adult form can make the world seem like it's coming to an end and life difficult to navigate but a counselor can help you through the rough patches.

I know all about STD's. I don't plan on being sexually active, it was just a one time event. Also I would talk to a counselor but I don't feel comfortable with my school counselor (she bent the truth a bit once so now I don't feel I can fully trust her). But still, I'm going to do my best and try improve on circumstances. Also I agree with your comparison between teen relationships and navigating the North Sea. The changes going on in my brain are very annoying, I wish I had full judgment.

Unfortunately people usually don't plan on being sexually active. It's usually quite an impulsive ordeal from my observations.

Anyway, there are counselors other than school counselors.

To be 15 again.

Right?

I would rather die than be 15 again. D:

You got a point there! 16 is when the world opened up. I had my driver's license and moved out of my parents' house.

...I'm 21 and haven't achieved either of those things. I wish I could have been that successful at age 16. At age 16 I came home from school crying every day because I was picked on all the time and was adjusting to Adderall and anti-depressants.

I graduated at the end of my junior year, just after I turned 16. So I moved my boyfriend (22 years old) and myself out of our parents' homes and into an apartment. Both of us were working full-time. When I got my license, I bought my mother's old car so I already had a foot out the door before I officially moved. That boyfriend and I broke up when I was 18, and then I started hustling 9-ball at the local pool parlor when I was off-work, which helped me make my bills. Unfortunately, I got married in the autumn of that year and my independence was quickly buried in the mess of an abusive marriage. I didn't have any doctors, diagnoses, or prescription medications to help me. I had caffeine, alcohol, tobacco/nicotine, and a lot of young energy.

After I left my abusive husband, I was 22 or 23 years old and had been living on my own as an adult since 16, even if I had gone through some horrible crap with the marriage. It was really difficult to bounce back to my parents' house where my mother treated me like I was a teenager in need of her care, then being abusive when I didn't go along with it or when I tried to actually contribute to the household bills like adult children are supposed to do. I got out of there very, very quickly!

I don't do very well if I'm not standing on my own two feet.

I would love to be independent. I'm in process of getting my license and finding a job.

That's fantastic! Godspeed!