biologic wrote:
daspie wrote:
Find some common ground, some common interest and try to meet him there. That way you can get him interested in you even if he is not so currently
We do have a lot of common interests. And we do talk a lot about them online. He rarely asks me about things, but he initiates contact. Although I've noted that he usually writes small essays in response to me asking questions. It's so hard, I don't know. Seems like he's opened up a bit more lately, but I can be wrong. He probably wouldn't talk to me for hours and hours if he wasn't the slightest bit interested?
I won't suggest you to ask him directly because if he is not interested in you then he may see you as an opportunity to for time pass. Tactfully bring him to most serious topics of life like job, getting married, having kids etc, but again do it very tactfully.
Do it like this- ask him about his high school time, his favorite topic(s) in school, then in college, college life(you can tell him about some story about your ex-boyfriend and make up story even if you do not have one!), employment, future plans.
Best of luck.