Meeting someone online for the first time

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Zinnel
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17 Sep 2011, 4:20 pm

been there done that

it was the most successful relationship ive ever had with a girl, and when we first met it was awkward and we both aknowledge how awkward it was for us, are first meeting up wasnt are first date in truth that was are second meeting up

i choose to treat it as if i was meeting a relative i hadnt seen in a long while, and that there apperence maybe different than u remember, and funny enough she told me she treated it the exact same way

however she was considered an NT, though late in the relationship i put all the pieces togather and realized she had aspergers

the best thing i can tell u is go in with an open mind expect the unexpected be ready for questions and hav questions of ur own, show that person the best u, u can be

best of luck :thumright:



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17 Sep 2011, 5:00 pm

Grisha wrote:
I got to meet Sagan today! :)

She was awesome! I can't even remember a time I met someone I felt so comfortable with... :)

(I know what you're thinking and the answer is: "no" :wink: )


:thumright: nice! Glad things went well.



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17 Sep 2011, 6:10 pm

I met someone i knew from the internet once, took us 3 and a half years ish to get around to it :P . Worked out well. Don't think i'd have the patience to get to know someone like that again though. Probably don't have the patience to get to know someone again at all tbh.



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17 Sep 2011, 7:34 pm

Grisha wrote:
I got to meet Sagan today! :)

She was awesome! I can't even remember a time I met someone I felt so comfortable with... :)

(I know what you're thinking and the answer is: "no" :wink: )


:D :D :D


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18 Sep 2011, 1:45 pm

Trigas wrote:
Grisha wrote:
I got to meet Sagan today! :)

She was awesome! I can't even remember a time I met someone I felt so comfortable with... :)

(I know what you're thinking and the answer is: "no" :wink: )


:thumright: nice! Glad things went well.


Happiness all around.

@Trigas, don't worry so much, just enjoy the time spent together. You already have a decent online relationship so moving to IRL should not be so daunting. Have fun.