I dunno. I can get Alprazolam (that's Xanax, if you get the brand-name kind, I get the generic) for panic attacks and it does that. Makes me relaxed and easy and able to cope with people. It's more for emergencies though, it's very addictive and it's not such a good med to take all the time. I take another anti-anxiety med (Citalopram. The brand name for that one is 'Celexa') every day. It helps a lot. Hugely. I used to be so anxious about dealing with people that I could barely bring myself to buy food. I'd panic and become non-verbal if I tried to order something at a counter, or answer a question at a check-out. So I'd skip meals, and I only ever went to the grocery store when I knew that the one check out clerk who never speaks was working. Now I'm pretty relaxed. It's weird, because I'm still anxious, it's just. I don't care that I'm anxious. Does that even make sense? I can just blow off the anxious feeling and do stuff, no problem. It's really been a huge difference for me.
I thought that the way the meds make me so much better at being verbal and dealing with people (and not freezing up when I get the eye-contact zaps) would make it easy for me to get a job now, but it's not turning out that way.