Are you good at picking up girls or guys?

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21 Oct 2011, 10:29 pm

I don't mean to brag but I would say I am pretty good at picking up girls its really easy for me since I can think like one

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21 Oct 2011, 10:34 pm

I could be if I wanted to be.

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21 Oct 2011, 10:35 pm

Since I love to act I often get into character when talking to a girl I like

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21 Oct 2011, 10:38 pm

I have my moments but its mostly women who come after me. In this regard I can flirt pretty well, meeting women has never been a problem for me. Even with her initiating you still have to be able to impress her or she'll assume you're not interested, or find you uninteresting, and thus move on

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21 Oct 2011, 10:41 pm

The most interesting thing about me is that I consider myself Bi-gender and I can act so well to come off as a awesome person I was a bit of a player in high school

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21 Oct 2011, 11:20 pm

I have never had any troubles picking up men and women. I am what is considered a "hot piece of arse" and i am very down to earth. Apparently also how i act is considered flirting so i get lots of interest. The types of people i like though are never the type to pursue me so i have to pursue them.

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22 Oct 2011, 12:56 am

I like a challenge so I go after girls that are hard to get :wink:

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22 Oct 2011, 5:55 am

Hmmm... I'm not so sure about me.

It depends, could you guys give me good examples of "flirting"? Then I can compare it to my behaviour.

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22 Oct 2011, 6:46 am

Sure, they're 'generally' lighter than me.

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22 Oct 2011, 6:48 am

Not much.

I have my moments.

But no results.

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22 Oct 2011, 6:59 am

No, absolutely not.

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22 Oct 2011, 1:26 pm

I tend to be oblivious to flirting and hinting which tends to leave the girl asking me out if she's very interested. I've never picked up anyone randomly or had a one night stand, relationships I've had were developed from friendships once I had shown certain traits that appealed to them. I was unaware and asexual growing up as a teenager and this lead me to develop innocent friendships with the opposite sex so I didn't develop the skills as quickly as others. I can't share intimacy with someone unless I feel close to them on a personal level because of it, it's just how I am.

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22 Oct 2011, 3:15 pm

I've almost done it accidentally a few times when I've done something that was misinterpreted as flirting. But, by design? Not at all, lol.

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22 Oct 2011, 4:11 pm

I've been misunderstood for flirting too, including with girls. I don't even fancy girls.

My answer would be no - I'm not good at picking up guys.

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22 Oct 2011, 4:37 pm

The advantage i have at talking to girls is that i an a good actor

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22 Oct 2011, 5:45 pm

im a good actor, i just have no script to talk to women into bed. or for anything really

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