deconstruction wrote:
Zinnel wrote:
this is very very true(in bold), but also completely letting fate take control also leads u no where finding that happy place in the middle where u can pursue those interests without truely wanting it becuz u lack those experiences is very tricky....and is something i hav yet even come close to accomplishing
No, no, I didn't mean on fate. I meant: the more you want something, the greater the pressure. Some people are good at working under pressure; it motivates them and it helps them give their best. Others break under pressure and become even less successful. This is me. I can't do anything under pressure, and the more I want something, the more pressure there is.
sorry i wasnt saying u ment fate i was just pointing out the other extreme to what u said
leaving it to fate - as in not putting any energy into pursueing a relationship
and wanting one so badly - putting all ur energy into pursueing a relationship
two extremes resulting in the same result...nothing
and i do agree about ur statement on pressure, especially when the pressure is self inflicted
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27 Nov 2011, 8:48 pm
