My 11 year old sister's hanging out with 16 year old boys!! !

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27 Dec 2011, 6:37 am

WTF? 16 year old boys don't want 11 year old girls.



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27 Dec 2011, 6:42 am

The_Perfect_Storm wrote:
WTF? 16 year old boys don't want 11 year old girls.


This is very true. They would have to be basically paedo. If she's having fun I'd leave her alone.



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27 Dec 2011, 6:56 am

fraac wrote:
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WTF? 16 year old boys don't want 11 year old girls.


This is very true. They would have to be basically paedo. If she's having fun I'd leave her alone.


Still possible I suppose.



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27 Dec 2011, 7:25 am

Tequila wrote:
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Oh, cool! :D There are some nice places around here.


Last time I was there I was near Porthmadog. :)

I think I went near there on my DofE expedition and as far as I can remember, it was really nice :)

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Ah right, Sounds interesting although I have never heard of those people haha :P


Basically, there's lots of swearing and low-budget action sequences in it.

If you've ever seen Kevin and Perry Go Large, Rhys Ifans plays "Eyeball Paul" in that. ;)


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27 Dec 2011, 7:34 am

Rhys Ifans is the ex-boyfriend of a friend of mine. I have no pertinent stories.



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27 Dec 2011, 10:03 am

The_Perfect_Storm wrote:
WTF? 16 year old boys don't want 11 year old girls.


This. Unless they're paedophiles (really rather unlikely) they won't try and do anything. I wouldn't worry.



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14 Jan 2012, 9:52 pm

Asp-Z wrote:
The_Perfect_Storm wrote:
WTF? 16 year old boys don't want 11 year old girls.


This. Unless they're paedophiles (really rather unlikely) they won't try and do anything. I wouldn't worry.

She doesn't LOOK 11 and said a lot of her guy friends liked her at first. Also some have dated one of her friends who's 12. I wouldn't be surprized if they didn't mind an extra year in age difference.


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16 Feb 2015, 5:35 pm

At the age of 11, I'm sure it's all innocent. At that point, she shouldn't even really understand sex, and may be naturally inclined to run for the hills should anything happen. But with drugs, it's a very real danger. Scare her straight if you think it's necessary. And try to teach her a thing or two about saying no to anything and everything weird. Monitor her discreetly, indirectly, and secretly. But otherwise let things play out.



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16 Feb 2015, 6:24 pm

Is it still useful to give advice 3 years later?


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16 Feb 2015, 6:24 pm

Is it still useful to give advice 3 years later?


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26 Mar 2015, 8:41 pm

Scissor...me wrote:
Is it still useful to give advice 3 years later?


I don't know but honestly it makes me wonder how his sister turned out. If at 14 she's drug and sex obsessed. And how this situation turned out.


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26 Mar 2015, 8:48 pm

Don't let your sister hang out with these future PrEDOtors



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28 Mar 2015, 9:50 am

Tequila wrote:
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hate to generalise but most guys that age are just looking to take advantage.


I think that applies to guys in general. ;)

Remember when a 5 year old boy rapist was arrested last month?
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Don't generalise.
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28 Mar 2015, 9:49 pm

modernmax wrote:
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Is it still useful to give advice 3 years later?


I don't know but honestly it makes me wonder how his sister turned out. If at 14 she's drug and sex obsessed. And how this situation turned out.

Yeah ... Sad... But hopefully the comments that were written shortly after this started have helped. :)


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29 Mar 2015, 5:16 am

You should do something about it. The boys might be pedophiles.