Wolfheart wrote:
As hard as it may seem, your feelings are far too invested for a positive mutual friendship to come out of this situation, the best bet for you is to completely go away, do everything in your power to cut contact even if it means blocking him from your phone, avoiding him in real life and not making any contact. It's not going to be easy and it will require discipline, strength and determination but I think with enough willpower, you will be able to get through this and see that there is a world without your ex.
Try to find the positive aspects in your life that you had before you met your ex and try to focus on independent goals and interests, you need to start enjoying the idea of being positive and happy independently.
As I wrote in the very first post, I both can't and won't cut him out of my life... I've made an ex into a friend so many times and I know it takes time... And this may be the hardest one ever but I'm determined to do this... The history we share is to valuable to just throw out... I know that I'll have the memories anyway but we just clicked right from the first day... And seeing that that doesn't happen to me that often I would do anything to keep him in my life one way or the other... Even if that means having a racetrack for my thoughts about him... But I will get over him... I just hope that I can do that even if he is in my life... I can't even think about cutting him off...
That would make me miserable...
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***Susan aka Sue***
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18 Feb 2012, 6:35 am
