Talking / typing too much
Funny, I look at other people's responses and feel bad that mine is so short in comparison. I don't know about the rest of the people here, but I like longer, in-depth responses.
I'm one of those people who, when I buy a book, feel a bit cheated if the book is too short.
Joker
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I was actually thinking this morning, about an hour before seeing this topic, about how long all the posts on WP are compared to the other forums I visit. If I feel like a post is way too long, I'm in the habit of giving it a tl;dr version at the end.
And that whole paragraph was unintended. I clicked post reply just to comment on how this topic is an exception because people are being self conscious. Kinda funny.
MiatheMutant
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This is me. Absolutely. I'm writing a paper right now that has to be 4-7 pages. Right now it's 9.5, and I've only used half of my sources. I have a hard time understanding why other people can't make minimum length. Stopping now.
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I tend to want people to explain things in detail to me like I do to them. Sometimes I don't understand what they mean and I say "What do you mean?" and they give me some quick answer that doesn't tell me anything and I'll say "I don't get it" and they say something else and I say "I still don't get it" and they try again to say something quick and I say "No, I mean why is <this> and what does <that> have to do with it and why can't you do <the other thing>?" and by that time they think I'm just being a smart ass or difficult on purpose and they just get disgusted and walk away.
Oh well.
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Yeah, I hate when I can point out the precise grammatical or word choice error giving me problems understanding someone, and they think, because they have heard this incorrect structure their whole life, and I'm smart enough to pick out precisely what it is, that I must be f***ing with them. At that point it's just a pain to get a good explanation out of them. >_>
I get told I talk to much esspecially when I talk about or type about a topic I enjoy.I annoy people sometimes without realizing it when I go on and on about the same thing.
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If someone mentions a subject in passing that is or used to be one of my topics of special interest, or if they mention a fact about something within that topic, I will immediately jump in and start talking about it and won't know when to shut up. I have learned to break up my long "lectures" on topics into short paragraphs and end with a question pertaining to the topic so they can feel like they are part of the conversation. If I do that I can sometimes draw somebody into a conversation with me about something I am actually interested in. I'm sure that lots of people think that I'm talking just to hear myself talk or because I like to talk about the topic or I'm wanting to show off or something, but that's not it. At the time that I go into "lecture mode" it's really important to me for the other person to know the things I'm telling them about this topic. I feel that if they will only listen, really listen to me about it for five minutes that they will find it interesting. I just really, really, REALLY want them to learn about the topic, preferably from me.
God forbid they bring up a special interest topic while they are at my house because I will light up like a Christmas tree, start going on about it and bring them several books on the topic and while I'm talking to them about it I will be paging through the books and putting book marks in various sections for them to read, which pertain to whatever it is that we talked about. I've sent so many people home with books that it's not funny. Sometimes I get them back, sometimes I don't.
Funny thing is, my kids friends know that I know a lot of off the wall stuff that most people don't care about and that my husband knows a lot about his special interest topics (WWII, Star Trek, space, space travel, astronomy - no, he really is NT) and they will come into the room where we are and ask us about something in his topics or if it's something crazy or obscure they come to me. They do this when they are talking about the topic and wondering something or arguing about it. They know that one of us will probably know the answer or I can find out the answer real fast, and with many topics chances are good that I will send them back to their friends with a book or two on it.
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My forum is still there and everyone is welcome to come join as well. There is a private women only subforum there if anyone is interested. Also, there is no CAPTCHA.
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falonsayswoah
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I have been told I write essays for text messages. If someone were to ask me how my day was, I would go into detail about everything that happened that day from the moment I woke up to the moment I got their text message. I've gotten a little bit better about this and now I'll usually just talk about how my classes went, or just stop myself altogether and say, "It wasn't too shabby," or something. It's so easy for me to get into essay-mode, though, and I end up doing it a lot. After I send the message and see that I used a couple thousand characters it's like... OOPS. Some people appreciate that I don't leave out anything, but others... Well when they respond with, "Haha cool," or something like that, it's pretty clear that they probably didn't read my entire message and aren't really interested in the conversation anymore. Oh well.
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I don't talk enough when socialising with people, but I do talk non-stop to my mum and some other close relatives. I'm always constantly yakking so much that I get told to ''stop talking for five minutes''. I don't seem to hear myself going on and on. But I'm completely the opposite when I'm with people outside my close family - I stand there and say nothing and only speak when I know I'm being signifficantly spoken to, and even then I only utter ''yes or no'' answers and never have a proper conversation. I can never win with myself!
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I type so much that my posts are usually two or three paragraphs long and can easily double that if I'm really passionate about whatever it is that I'm typing about. Whenever I create a topic that I'd like to have input on, I try to include a "short version" at the top that gets straight to the point so that I'll have a better chance of getting replies from people who don't like reading extra-long posts.
I also talk a lot in real life. My nickname in elementary school was "Chatterbox" and a couple of years ago my Nana told me that I'm the most talkative person she's ever met.
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Another thing that I noticed is that, when someone IMs me or e-mails me, I never really know when to stop replying. Some people who communicate with me online a lot quickly say goodbye and immediately log off so they don't have to spend twenty minutes parting ways. It's kind of an entertaining defense mechanism. On the other hand, when I try to break it off on my end first, I tend to offend the other person because I won't say goodbye properly. I can't win.
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I know that, when I finally get my dream job, my patients won't laugh at me or call me a mutant.
AQ: 159/200 NT 50/200
EQ: 14 SQ: 85 AQ: 43 Other Test: 71/72
Undiagnosed: marginal costs > marginal benefits
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