What does a kiss mean to you?

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11 Sep 2012, 10:19 pm

Well, what does it mean when you get kissed? That is the question.
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For me, when a woman kisses me, it means that she acknowledges my love for all that it is worth. It's the culmination of many things for me, a beam of hope for me knowing that I am loved and that my dreams will come true someday. I'll also follow that up with a nice, "Thanks, <name>." and smile at her.


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11 Sep 2012, 10:42 pm

For me it means a kind of warm, slimy stickiness somewhere on my skin. (ok... Maybe I can see why no one wants to date me...)


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11 Sep 2012, 10:45 pm

It can be the conversion of passion from my lips to his or a slimy chore that I rather get over with.It depends if I'm in the mood or not. I don't like kissing without feeling it. If I feel it, then it calls for a kiss.



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11 Sep 2012, 11:11 pm

It's a spontaneous thing, it's never something I've made a habit of with my partners, but when it happens it happens. i'm actually more comfortable with more unorthodox forms of physical expression (such as nuzzling or light headbutts).

The weirdest thing though is getting kissed randomly by strangers (usually drunk middle aged women in my experience). How are you supposed to react to something like that?



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12 Sep 2012, 12:54 am

i'm desireable


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12 Sep 2012, 1:49 am

It means zillions of her germs trying to invade my system, spreading unimaginable diseases. Yuck.



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12 Sep 2012, 1:59 am

equestriatola wrote:
Well, what does it mean when you get kissed? That is the question.
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For me, when a woman kisses me, it means that she acknowledges my love for all that it is worth. It's the culmination of many things for me, a beam of hope for me knowing that I am loved and that my dreams will come true someday. I'll also follow that up with a nice, "Thanks, <name>." and smile at her.


You must be a completely naive to think that, a kiss doesn't have to mean anything, I have made out with girls on first dates and after a short amount of time without knowing anything or much about them.



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12 Sep 2012, 3:47 am

Wolfheart wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Well, what does it mean when you get kissed? That is the question.
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For me, when a woman kisses me, it means that she acknowledges my love for all that it is worth. It's the culmination of many things for me, a beam of hope for me knowing that I am loved and that my dreams will come true someday. I'll also follow that up with a nice, "Thanks, <name>." and smile at her.


You must be a completely naive to think that, a kiss doesn't have to mean anything, I have made out with girls on first dates and after a short amount of time without knowing anything or much about them.

Although, equestriatola may not kiss anyone until they are in love, so it might be somewhat applicable. I would feel weird if someone thanked me every time I kissed them though. It's supposed to be a mutual thing, not a favour.

If someone kisses me, it means they are attracted to me in some way and want to express it. That's about it I guess. There are multiple possible scenarios for kissing, so there are also multiple specific motives and meanings, but I think "attraction" covers most of it.



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12 Sep 2012, 4:09 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
Wolfheart wrote:
equestriatola wrote:
Well, what does it mean when you get kissed? That is the question.
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For me, when a woman kisses me, it means that she acknowledges my love for all that it is worth. It's the culmination of many things for me, a beam of hope for me knowing that I am loved and that my dreams will come true someday. I'll also follow that up with a nice, "Thanks, <name>." and smile at her.


You must be a completely naive to think that, a kiss doesn't have to mean anything, I have made out with girls on first dates and after a short amount of time without knowing anything or much about them.

Although, equestriatola may not kiss anyone until they are in love, so it might be somewhat applicable. I would feel weird if someone thanked me every time I kissed them though. It's supposed to be a mutual thing, not a favour.

If someone kisses me, it means they are attracted to me in some way and want to express it. That's about it I guess. There are multiple possible scenarios for kissing, so there are also multiple specific motives and meanings, but I think "attraction" covers most of it.


Well, technically, I would only say thanks for a kiss that meant a lot to me. Any other times I'll just smile.


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12 Sep 2012, 5:37 am

Some kisses are platonic (no tongue, just cheek).

Some are full on and sleazy :lol:

And then there are the slow, lingering, meaningful ones shared with somebody that means a lot. :)



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12 Sep 2012, 5:16 pm

Of course, to add it all up, it depends on who the woman was; if it turns out to be short-lived relationship, I'll look back and say, "Well, that was quite a waste...."


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12 Sep 2012, 5:35 pm

It means that I'm gonna get laid again.



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12 Sep 2012, 9:00 pm

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A kiss is not a contract
But it's very nice
Mmmmm, very nice
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12 Sep 2012, 9:31 pm

Question their sanity .


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12 Sep 2012, 10:14 pm

PTSmorrow wrote:
It means zillions of her germs trying to invade my system, spreading unimaginable diseases. Yuck.
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13 Sep 2012, 12:09 am

To me... well, a kiss is generally something I share only with the person I care about the most... ever since November of last year that person has been Kyuuchan. Typically there's four kinds that have different meanings

Short, quick peck - "Hey, how are you?" or "Gotta bounce, bye!"
Longer, with a passionate embrace - "Words cannot describe how much I love you, but maybe this can."
Above, but with tongue - "We're alone now, lets stop and enjoy each other's company. The world can wait."
Above, but not on lips (ear, neck, collar, etc.) - "Cancel our plans to go out. You and I are gonna have some fun." :P

Unfortunately haven't gotten much of #3 with Kyuuchan yet, and nothing of #4. I don't blame her, when she does it will be her first time, but hoping that changes in the near future.


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