aspie women, do you hate women in general?

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my best friend is a female who acts very masculine does taht count?

i don't hate women but i don't get along with them sometimes...when there are more than 2 women together for example. i'm a girl but i still don't understand how their behaviour chanches to...god knows what. or how to talk to them

IMHO,women are the lesser of two evils, but only just.

I don't hate women but women have always been the meanest to me.

I also tend to get along better with men. My interests have always been tomboyish so it just kind of worked out like that. It might have something to do with AS I guess. I've never really sat there and analyzed it.

I do have some girl friends but they are a lot like me or at least share my interests in a way. A few of them are slightly more girly and kind of taught me how to look more feminine and dress less tomboy. I'm hetero and people used to think I was a lesbian because of the way I dressed and my interests and what not. I don't get that anymore.

I hate Yuppies.
which is what the cliquey girls in highschool who goon to be sority girls end up being.

I like more womenly things. I'm a fabric store groupie. I find a lady who can knit well and its like most girls are with guys who play guitar.

I like to talk about feelings and am open. AS a result I don't get along with other guys much unless its one on one.

I can't stand locker room talk especailly now that I know its mostly BS.

As for wanting just one thing out of women I'm not interested in dating and the flirting stuff makes it hard for me to make new female friends. Also you cant ask a guy out to just be friends. Just doesnt happen.

I have consistently struggled with females. I find many of them catty, needy, dramatic, demanding, gossipy, backbiting and just plain mean. This isn't all women, and recently I have actually made some female friends. I still feel like I can't really be 100% myself around most of them, except one.

It depends. I don't really do well with women who act superficial and cliquish. I don't necessarily hate them I just can't enjoy myself. Probably because of these Asperger's. The biggest thing I can't stand and I see a lot of women and girls do it is saying nasty things behind eachother's backs. I'm sure it's been dun to me many times. I generally get along with anyone who doesn't have a big social busy schedule. If that made any since.

I absolutely don't hate women--I have some feminist tendencies, for goodness' sake !

I just don't share many common interests with other women around my age in this country. I find it hard to talk with them unless it's about our classes. It seems like all that most girls focus on these days are boys or money. I hate how some of them dress like sluts to attract boys, and then trash talk about said boys behind their backs. No offense to sorority members, but most sorority girls at my school fit the stereotype...materialistic and superficial.

Most of my friends are girls, though, but luckily they are not superficial, apathetic, or materialistic. It was the boys I knew who behaved like girls, typically.

You know, after reading these forums. Most women and I know there's guys too. But most women seem to hate women, what's up with that? Just curious.

Well, to answer that, my dad had a colonoscopy where they had to remove a lot of polyps and afterwards he bitched because he had to wear a Kotex for several days cause of the bleeding. I didn't give him any sympathy. I told him now you know what we go through every month.

Now I am getting ready to go through menopause. I don't know whether it will be hard or not but I am ready to have it over with.

I had this idea once; at birth, all men should have a small device inserted into the anus or urethra. At puberty, this device could be programmed to release harmful radiation, dissolving the outer layers of the soft mucus membranes. This would cause extreme pain and uncontrollable bleeding, mimicking the female menstrual cycle.

Now that's sexual equality.

Or finding options for men who want to get pregnant. Now that's procreation in the future.

It's an instinctual thing, I believe. My husband calls it the 'queen bee syndrome,' where in a group one woman will always position herself at the top of the pecking order. It sounds sexist, but it's true. Women are threatened by the proximity of other females, especially if younger and/or more attractive or even just more assertive and outgoing. At work, I'm ina department where everyone is female and there's a clear pecking order. Things get interesting when a male enters the room, when they all suddenly become giggly and talkative. They also get jealous of each other, even the oldest of the women, who are pushing 65-70 years old.

These are just observations I've made over the years whilst growing up. This question has confounded me all of my life. I always wondered why women do not bond with each other easily (like men do) once they pass the 18-20 age group. This was/is expecially true in my case. I haven't had a true female friend since the age of 25. Women, as a rule, dislike me right away and see me as a threat. Why, I have no idea. I'm not particularly good-looking nor assertive, yet even now when I'm entering my 4th decade of life, they still distance themselves from me. I don't have a problem with women at all, but I can tell if they don't like me, which is usually the case -- even online.

See what I mean it really does your head in.

They don't make much sense.

I hate most people, regardless of sex. No sex is better, they're both equally f*****g stupid and obnoxious to me... most of them, I mean.

*edited by lau, to remove attempt to circumvent filter. User banned*

Oooooooooo Man , you're asking for an Atomic Wedgie for that little comment!


BTW MissConstrue-you asked me what I have against feminists, well what Aridarr just said above pretty much explains it in a nutshell.