Do girls find it extra hot when big guys bully small guys?

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Spuggey
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22 May 2013, 7:04 pm

I hate bullies.



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22 May 2013, 9:33 pm

I hate abusive people, and bullies :roll:


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22 May 2013, 11:05 pm

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Power is poison to virtue, I would forgo being the most powerful man in the world, to be the most unappreciated and chivalrous hero there is any day.


I appreciate your zeal, but saying things like this is exactly like Peter saying "YEAH LORD, I'LL NEVER DENY YOU EVER!"



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23 May 2013, 8:55 am

1000Knives wrote:
appletheclown wrote:
Power is poison to virtue, I would forgo being the most powerful man in the world, to be the most unappreciated and chivalrous hero there is any day.


I appreciate your zeal, but saying things like this is exactly like Peter saying "YEAH LORD, I'LL NEVER DENY YOU EVER!"


Think about it, me the most powerful man in the world, or a chivalrous upper middle-classmen who never gets thanked? Which is more likely for me?


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23 May 2013, 11:14 am

I would love to be able to help, being a girl and all, but I have never knowingly met anyone who dated bullies. Even my dear little sister has dated an emotionally abusive control freak, a sociopath, a junkie, an actively (during the relationship) bisexual junkie, an actively (during the relationship) pansexual junkie, and a dude who thought he was a warlock...but won't go near guys who pick on others. Clearly if the bullies have girlfriends, someone must be interested in them, but I suspect you're looking at a very special subset of the population, akin to girls who write love letters to death row inmates: By the vast majority of autistic and neurotypical society, someone with a prolonged history of raping children to death would not be considered attractive, but as long as there's that tiny minority out there, they'll have girlfriends anyway. I don't like to think it's something to generalize from.



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24 May 2013, 2:37 pm

I'm male. I like all people. A lot of my friends are smaller so called nerds. I'm a 6'2" 230 pound muscular beast. I love, love to hurt a bully. I have two broken bones and several missing teeth to my credit. Someone like me is needed in a tribe to regulate people like that so that all minds are treated equally. Intellect should not be subjugated by the might of the ignorant.



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24 May 2013, 2:50 pm

SinewStew wrote:
I'm male. I like all people. A lot of my friends are smaller so called nerds. I'm a 6'2" 230 pound muscular beast. I love, love to hurt a bully. I have two broken bones and several missing teeth to my credit. Someone like me is needed in a tribe to regulate people like that so that all minds are treated equally. Intellect should not be subjugated by the might of the ignorant.


In this corner we got the all famous Sinew(of bully)Stew, and in the other corner, a guy who likes stealing from homeless people, begin!


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24 May 2013, 6:05 pm

Believe it or not, I've been a severe/profound special needs teacher for 11 years. I'm not a bully but rather a protector.



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24 May 2013, 6:29 pm

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Believe it or not, I've been a severe/profound special needs teacher for 11 years. I'm not a bully but rather a protector.


And he comes out a hero, the new champion Sinew(made from bullies)Stew!! !!


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24 May 2013, 8:18 pm

Yes, "made from" because I ate them.



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25 May 2013, 1:14 pm

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In college, around age 17-20, I used to get bigger guys bully me all the time. I noticed all these guys were very popular with the ladies. They were the sterotypical 'jocks'. They all had girlfriends but still felt the need to pick on and dominate me even though i had 0 girlfriends. I'm sure their bullying ways were not unnoticed by such ladies.

You're "pretty sure"? Why? Were they standing there cheering them on? Maybe those guys just did it to get the dopamine rush from "winning".

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So, ladies, do you like this kind of macho, dominant behaviour in males? I mean, women are attracted to dominance right? And many ladies love the stronger-built looking chaps that can protect them from other males. So why SHOULD they not be attracted to male bullies that have a physical authority over smaller, weaker men.? I mean that's the order of things in animal kingdom - the larger males dominate and bully the smaller males, so why shouldn't it be that way with humans?


Somehow I have the feeling I'm about to be told I don't know what I like, but for what it's worth, no, I don't. I like guys who are kind and helpful to weaker guys (weaker in whatever way, possibly less intelligent guys). In fact one of the first things that attracted me to my husband was seeing him patiently help out a guy who was less intelligent and knowledgeable than he was. From an evolutionary standpoint, why would I choose a guy who makes enemies for himself when I could have one with leadership qualities?



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25 May 2013, 1:18 pm

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I don't think bullies' gfs are often aware of the bullying practice their bfs are doing, high school guys often have gfs from other class or even from other school.

Or they often fail to realize that what's happening is bullying and think it's just "tough guys' playing" instead. Bullies usually don't go "full violent bullying" mode on their victims in the presence of girls


This, also.



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25 May 2013, 2:04 pm

Hmmm I don't think it's directly connected...

I've been bullied physically once when I was 14 a 16 year old guy hit me for no reason with no word exchange and since I was the big fat strong kid it ended with me without a single scratch except the small wounds in my knuckles and him beated until he was knocked out and for some reason he became extra popular for a short period of time with girls and it was like "ohhhh poor you" (until his face recovered normal color), I don't really know why when everyone knew that he was the one who started the fight.

If it was connected I would have been the popular one.

Good decission BTW, got a huge load of respect after that and nobody ever messed up with me again.



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24 May 2016, 4:46 pm

Ratae wrote:
I used to be a small, weak-looking, timid guy from my middle teens to early 20's and hated it. 5ft7 to 5ft9 and ranging from 110lbs to 130lbs from ages 17-21.

In college, around age 17-20, I used to get bigger guys bully me all the time. I noticed all these guys were very popular with the ladies. They were the sterotypical 'jocks'. They all had girlfriends but still felt the need to pick on and dominate me even though i had 0 girlfriends. I'm sure their bullying ways were not unnoticed by such ladies.

So, ladies, do you like this kind of macho, dominant behaviour in males? I mean, women are attracted to dominance right? And many ladies love the stronger-built looking chaps that can protect them from other males. So why SHOULD they not be attracted to male bullies that have a physical authority over smaller, weaker men.? I mean that's the order of things in animal kingdom - the larger males dominate and bully the smaller males, so why shouldn't it be that way with humans?


They generally don't bully in front of women, unless the women initiate the bullying, then the jock will back them up. It's actually pretty pathetic for a big guy to pick on someone much smaller than them. Women see that as a man beating up a child, and it's kind of a turn off for them.

Women are more aroused by a fair fight between two evenly matched opponents, than one big guy picking on a small guy. It just looks pathetic.

It also depends on the woman, too.



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24 May 2016, 8:05 pm

you're right, people are generally as*holes. as*holes are attracted to other as*holes.
my advice is, don't try to attract as*holes if you're not an as*hole.
women who aren't as*holes will find it hot if you're not an as*hole.



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24 May 2016, 8:34 pm

How do people come up with this crap idea for a thread?

I actually don't believe most people are as*holes.