My best friend is in love with me

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11 May 2013, 8:44 am

Well, hopefully everything works out between you two ;p

I wonder how he'll react xD.


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11 May 2013, 9:44 am

Thanks all :)
He couldn't stop screaming virtually, all every 2 seconds he's like "AAAAAAAAAH!! !" XD


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11 May 2013, 9:48 am

AnniPierrot wrote:
Thanks all :)
He couldn't stop screaming virtually, all every 2 seconds he's like "AAAAAAAAAH!! !" XD



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11 May 2013, 9:50 am

Sounds like he was excited ;p


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11 May 2013, 9:58 am

You bet he was :)
Best Friend 6.0 has been upgraded to Boyfriend 1.0 :P


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11 May 2013, 10:07 am

AnniPierrot wrote:
You bet he was :)
Best Friend 6.0 has been upgraded to Boyfriend 1.0 :P


Be careful. 1.0 versions use to have bugs :lol:


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11 May 2013, 11:52 am

Greb wrote:
AnniPierrot wrote:
You bet he was :)
Best Friend 6.0 has been upgraded to Boyfriend 1.0 :P


Be careful. 1.0 versions use to have bugs :lol:


Lol this one has 1 bug: litterbug! :x


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11 May 2013, 8:36 pm

Anyway, I hope your relationship endeavors continue on smoothly!

With lots of cuddling! xD


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12 May 2013, 5:34 am

Thank you! :D


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12 May 2013, 10:24 am

Sounds like you are both very close, but my concern would be he becomes dependent on you, as you mention his eating disorder and the need to ask for your help, really he should also learn to tend to himself before getting you involved (and vice versa, independence is a strong skill to have).

As for love you don't get to decide who you fall in love with, in fact most of the people I know who said "I'll never date him/her!" end up doing so which results in children or marriage, so I think to call him a liar is incorrect because it is perfectly reasonable to suggest that time has allowed for his emotions to change for you.

You say you cannot process what is happening but your initial post seems to have summarized it all, despite all of the above you portray him as a wonderful man with a lot to offer you, but I would not go as far to suggest you will never find better, you are only 18, statistically speaking most people do not realize their long term partner now until their 30's. Don't feel guilt if you do not feel the same way, you did not ask to be placed in the same situation as him, as for what you should do it depends on how you would feel going out with him, do bear in mind that a long term relationship can lead to complete separation from you both yet at the same time you may never know how wonderful he is unless you try it to begin with, it all comes down to your personal choice, don't feel obligated to come up with a quick answer, as you say time is required to process this event so explain that to him, if he truly is a good friend he will respect you choice one way or the other.


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12 May 2013, 11:01 am

Um...

Gamer, they're already together.

You're late XD.


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