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30 Nov 2013, 3:44 am

Kjas wrote:
Shau wrote:
Shatbat wrote:
Well Shau, do what you must. It is possible to keep seeing people as a friend after such things happen, and those friendships can still be valuable. And once one takes the decision of not hit in another person, future interactions with them become more straightforward and without so much doubts. If you think such a friendship would fill you instead of draining you, go for it.


At this point "being friends" is more akin to "managing to not hate each other afterwards".


Mate, do yourself a massive favour and cut contact. You need time to heal. No friendship is going to be possible right now and deep down you know that, so don't try to pretend and just do what's best for you. You don't need anyone's approval, least of all hers.



yeah, thats good advice. Nice guys finish last and all that.



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30 Nov 2013, 3:54 am

Well the thing is she's liable to be around the university I'm at for at least another year in the same department as me, and potentially in one of my social circles. I'd rather things not be tense when we inevitably cross paths. Keeping things cordial is to both of our benefits.



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03 Dec 2013, 12:18 am

EW, give her the flick, what a stupid bint.

Sorry that happened to you bro.