how do people take time off dating to focus on themselves?

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14 Feb 2014, 10:04 am

plant14 wrote:
I just get upset when these secure people are capable of doing something that makes no sense to me.
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I end up looking like the weak one since I can't just drop any relationship as easily as they can ...

Just bear in mind that people work in different ways. If people work some way that you don't understand and could never imagine doing, it doesn't necessarily mean that their way is better. If however you're working is doing you well, then that's just fine, there's no need to feel inferior. In fact, I would be compelled to think that if you don't need a break from a relationship then you're actually doing pretty well-off compared to them.