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28 Feb 2014, 12:43 am

I have always wondered if they like love or hugs or being embraced of comforted because i feel in my instincts of wanting to embrace and comfort a woman and make her happy. Is this normal? I am a heterosexual male. I just seem to have a very soft heart! :oops: I also get very mushy inside is this normal? I also feel obligated to try and cheer a woman up if shes crying and sad and stuff! :oops:


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28 Feb 2014, 1:02 am

Sounds great to me . . . I was just thinking I could use a comforting hug.

When I have been in love I have felt the same way - wanting the guy to be happy because it makes me happy.


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28 Feb 2014, 1:02 am

When you saybobligated, it sounds like you occasionally are forced to do so.


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28 Feb 2014, 1:32 am

charcoalsketches wrote:
When you saybobligated, it sounds like you occasionally are forced to do so.
My instincts tell me to cheer that woman up and be a good guy and stuff. Otherwise if i dont i feel bad inside!


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28 Feb 2014, 8:35 am

Yep. That's normal. It's merely you being a human being and respobding to tge common need for sympathy and connection.


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01 Mar 2014, 12:33 am

charcoalsketches wrote:
Yep. That's normal. It's merely you being a human being and respobding to tge common need for sympathy and connection.
Oh.. ok....*stares at the ground in a pigeon toed stance as he twiddles his thumbs* :oops:


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01 Mar 2014, 12:34 am

charcoalsketches wrote:
Yep. That's normal. It's merely you being a human being and respobding to tge common need for sympathy and connection.
Oh.. ok....*stares at the ground in a pigeon toed stance as he twiddles his thumbs* :oops:


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01 Mar 2014, 1:02 pm

the thing with love is that it doesnt last forever
it changes
and if today im madly in love with someone after couple of years
my object of interest will change


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