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04 Mar 2014, 10:52 am

Hi,

I am not diagnosed with Asperger's but I have signs and behavior of having one. Here's my question, there are times that when I'm doing research, I tend to think and solve problems deeply that after such activity I tend to forget to socialize well. I become so objective, serious and socially dull. Does this mean that after engaging in such logical, in-depth activities makes one inclined to exhibit autistic behavior? (like Dexter addicted to his experiments)???



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04 Mar 2014, 12:12 pm

Firstly, I noticed this is your first post so welcome to Wrong Planet :)
And in response to your post: possibly, I've noticed the same thing, but I think it could be as it takes time to 're-assess' the social situation, so you focus more on finding out that than actually being social, if you understand my meaning (at least thats what happens to me)


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04 Mar 2014, 1:31 pm

Hi arjay, welcome to WP!
About your question - If I do deep logical thinking about things that NTs don't care about, I tend to become less social. If I do deep logical thinking about what NTs do, or how they socialise, I tend to become more social with them. It's not that I'm changing from what I really am, It's just my behaviour that shifts a little this way or a little that way.


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04 Mar 2014, 5:01 pm

I think that's a stereotype.



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04 Mar 2014, 5:30 pm

(continued on from last post) Or actually, after thinking for a bit, it could be due to the fact you are still thinking about the research/problem


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04 Mar 2014, 7:50 pm

I don't think it makes you more autistic but happens because you are autistic. We have a difficultly adjusting to change. For me I find I could spend hours reading about a special interest and then when I go to socialise I can't use any of the material I have memorized, and because I haven't done much else I don't have much to say.


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04 Mar 2014, 10:12 pm

I think it's difficult for anyone to switch from a very specific, in-depth object of focus. I can only speak for myself, but the reason I find it confusing and distressing to switch tasks, or go from being alone to being in company, is that I can only hyperfocus - my brain is always in research-mode.

I guess if conceptualizing this as an autistic trait helps you to understand what's going on in your head, then you might as well use that model. I suspect there are others you could choose if you wanted to, though.



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20 Mar 2014, 8:46 am

okay.. Well, I'm having a difficult time multitasking, my performance worsens too much, especially when I do some thinking as my work is in R & D. Hmmm... maybe perhaps I enjoy research and designing and I lose interest in social activities that I don't mind getting in sync with them.