Hi arjay, welcome to WP!
About your question - If I do deep logical thinking about things that NTs don't care about, I tend to become less social. If I do deep logical thinking about what NTs do, or how they socialise, I tend to become more social with them. It's not that I'm changing from what I really am, It's just my behaviour that shifts a little this way or a little that way.
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What is the single most frequent thought that aspies have?
How do NTs do that?