it is better to have NEVER loved than to have loved and lost

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'tis better to have never loved than loved and lost- discuss.
YES! it hurts far worse to have lost a love than to have never felt love at all. 47%  47%  [ 8 ]
NO! it hurts far worse to never have experienced love, a breakup could never compare! 18%  18%  [ 3 ]
they both hurt like wang, but the former is acute while the latter is chronic like a dull ache that never quits 12%  12%  [ 2 ]
i don't really give a damn one way or another 12%  12%  [ 2 ]
just give me my ice cream and i'll be happy :) 12%  12%  [ 2 ]
Total votes : 17

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22 Mar 2014, 2:17 am

delaSHANE wrote:
This might not help to heal your sadness, but want to say; you are a diamond in the rough, and worthy of so much love and happiness. That's all I know.

thank you very much. btw, what was your poll choice?



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22 Mar 2014, 2:31 am

initially, I was going to pick "better to have loved and lost", due to how I have been feeling a longing for love, as it has been so long, since I have had love in my life, but I chose "both", because, to love and have lost that love, had been excruciatingly painful. Both are difficult. You described "both", so eloquently, by the way. Love and happiness to you, a b....



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22 Mar 2014, 2:33 am

auntblabby wrote:
thank you :) which poll answer did you prefer?


I guess the thid option fits me best ('both hurt a lot'), but I could really go for that ice cream. :P


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22 Mar 2014, 8:46 pm

an ice cream for the soul would be just what the good doctor ordered.



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22 Mar 2014, 9:23 pm

I seriously don't care as long as I have my cookie dough ice cream :D



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22 Mar 2014, 9:25 pm

Mrrandomman wrote:
I seriously don't care as long as I have my cookie dough ice cream :D

that's the spirit :wtg: