auntblabby wrote:
naturalplastic wrote:
Sorry about this-whatever it was-that just happened to you. About the question posted: I don't know.
thank you for your response. if you wish to relate to your own experience in this regard, I will listen and be supportive.
Reminds of someone else's experience.
A buddy at work who I worked with a long time (left the company and I havent heard from him lately) had at one time been engaged. I was aware that some fiance in his past "broke his heart" and betrayed him somehow.
Then one day when he, I, and a lady coworker, were on break on a project utilizing just the three of us- he told us of a dream he had had.
In this dream he found himself up in a tree terrified of falling. He had to move through the branches -picking each one carefully-to keep from falling.
Then suddenly- he dropped safely to the ground.
But he realized that he was stark naked.
A young lady passerby was startled by this naked guy appearing in front of her. He said 'excuse me miss' as he quickly bolted for the door of his house.
He wondered aloud what it meant. The lady coworker just rasped "it means you're horney".
That evening after work his dream drifted into my head. That lady coworker gave the right "short answer", but...Well I concluded that the dream meant that he had recovered from the emotional wound of that relationship he had years before.
He was up in a tree- terrified of making a wrong move- and of getting hurt.
But then he leaves the tree- but he is naked- and in front of a young lady-meaning he was exposed emotionally- now ready to open up again to a relationship. Ready to take a risk again. Rather poignant actually- it seemed to me.
Less than a year after that- he found himself a wife and had a wedding. So...maybe I was on to something in my analysis.
Anyway- like this guy I worked with- you will recover from this someday too.