What is flirting - and sexual attraction?
Anyway, if a guy asked this, don't look at me for answers. My personality type is only 1-2% of the entire population and within that hardly any are female. You add in the Aspie stuff and I'm probably ~.026% of the female population. I'm the aberration, not the norm.
For lack of better wording men who fit this are so breathtaking... I also find myself liking men who are average in weight because i am also average but because i have large hips, thicker thighs, a smallish waist, and larger breasts and arms a lot of people consider me fat. i think i'm just way to curvy- the funny thing is a lot of is muscle...if i was taller i would have perfect proportions but because i'm not i appear a bit chunky... i also find that i like men with an exotic but plain look to them (lol best way to describe it, huh?) they are usually intense and very mysterious and shy. i find those good characteristcs- i also like the strength and intelligence of these type of men.
Physical attraction is a funny thing. For me its always been something that hits me on the head i never casually like someone- when i see that person for the first time it beats me into submission then i feel like i can't live without them by my side- its actually kind of crazy..i come from spanish, indian, and african american decent so theres nothing characteristic about the men i like- i like the opposites. i'm light myself but i love the way pale skin looks with my skin- im lighter but buttery in color i like how the skin contrasts...okay i think i've just gone on WAY too long about skin. goodness, this whole topic is certainly leaving me breathless! lol also Zanne i honestly don't believe i represent ANYONE in the population even being NT- i'm so eccentric in the way i think and feel and i constantly have people telling me i'm "strange' and "weird". funny because i do nothing but embrace it.
Well, hey Caramel, I always say I'm strange as well. At least we know it! I'm not sure I'd want to be normal. I like my brain too much. We have this thing going on.
As to your mixture, it's better than my old whitebread mix or lack thereof! My best friend, who I am sure is Aspie herself and much more pronounced than I am even, is African American/Native American/Jewish mix and bisexual to boot! What she likes in men is nothing like what she likes in women. I'll never figure that out. She actually was published in a book where she talks about coming out as bisexual (we all knew already) and in it, she has my reaction. I asked her if she wanted me to scope out chicks for her. LOL Pretty funny since I never know what is happening myself. Maybe I was hopeful that I would "get it" better with women. I still had hope of getting it back then. I didn't do any better job for her with the women. We were both just kind of clueless. Good thing they liked us and found us.
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