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18 Nov 2014, 5:00 pm

Even sticking it in his mouth is probably uncomfortable. In that way, it appears he showed more devotion to God than anyone in the sanctuary, including the priest.

I can't see Jesus denying him communion.

"But Jesus called the children to him and said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these." Luke 18:16

From the Vatican, I'd say silence is approval.



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19 Nov 2014, 4:05 pm

Feeling guilty because I've dropped the ball and I think it is getting too close to the event to pursue it; I had finally gotten all the info on a good person to rope in for activism and then I got busy elsewhere ... sorry :(


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19 Nov 2014, 4:07 pm

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Maybe the bottom line all along was the Catholic Churches agenda of opposing divorce for any reason at all, irrespective of how horrendous spousal abuse may be or any of the other marital atrocities that are daily occurences. It figures.


That isn't correct; an abusive marriage can be annulled.

I know because I know people who have had it done.


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19 Nov 2014, 4:11 pm

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I hope this gets discussed at the conference by Francis, as an example of the Catholic respect and acceptance of people with autism..
Leopards and spots, leopards and spots...


"In 2006, a 10-year-old Arizona boy with autism was denied taking Holy Communion by his Catholic church. Holy Communion is a ritual of the Catholic faith that commemorates the breaking of bread at Jesus Christ?s last supper.

Matthew Moran had trouble swallowing foods of certain textures, including the Communion wafer. The youngster had been taking Communion in a unique manner. With his father looking on, he would place the wafer in his mouth for a moment and then his father would take it out of his mouth and consume it himself.

Nick Moran, the child?s father, told the Arizona Republic newspaper that if he didn?t do this Matthew would spit the wafer out of his mouth".
Courtesy Spectrum Publications


Read more: http://www.autismsupportnetwork.com/new ... z3JSXUJlq9


It varies a lot by priest, and this is far from the only issue that has arisen with the process; right now there are many who can't take communion because of the gluten.

I think what it comes down to is that no one HAS to receive communion to be a good Catholic or to be in God's grace, and since it is supposed to "be" the body of Christ I don't know how you modify the ritual and have it still be the same thing.

That is definitely an area that has only recently become an issue, and it is going to take time for the thinking on it to fully resolve.


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20 Nov 2014, 5:01 pm

Is this the same conference?

http://www.disabilityscoop.com/2014/11/ ... ism/19856/

Pope Francis is a good man, I hope he does get through to people that would like nothing more than to push a button, and have Autism and Asperger's disappear. To make them see we're not a malady, and should be valued and seen as a positive.



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23 Nov 2014, 11:26 am

Moromillas wrote:
Is this the same conference?

http://www.disabilityscoop.com/2014/11/ ... ism/19856/

Pope Francis is a good man, I hope he does get through to people that would like nothing more than to push a button, and have Autism and Asperger's disappear. To make them see we're not a malady, and should be valued and seen as a positive.


He said "[A]bove all, prevent the onset of these conditions as soon as possible."



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23 Nov 2014, 12:31 pm

Where can I read about what he said?



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23 Nov 2014, 12:49 pm

http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/news/ ... ism-32815/


Moral of the story: Changing attitudes requires a bottom-up rather than a top-down approach.



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23 Nov 2014, 1:36 pm

How true that is. The inclusion message is positive. The disease stuff is regrettable, however we are going to continue to be faced with this until we take possession of "the message to the others" ourselves. That day seems to still be far in the future to me, though I look forward to being proved wrong on that.



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23 Nov 2014, 2:26 pm

I think the Riddle Scale is instructive here. The Riddle Scale describes different levels of respect/lack of respect for LGBTQ people. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Riddle_scale. It could be applied to autistics too.

The vatican seems to be at the "pity" level when it comes to autistics.



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23 Nov 2014, 11:29 pm

Here's the speech in full, have your sick bucket ready.

http://en.radiovaticana.va/news/2014/11 ... sm/1112005

With all the good pope Francis has done previously, this is just so hard to believe, that he would actually encourage eugenic elimination, and spread even more stigma.



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24 Nov 2014, 3:38 am

^^^ Nowhere does he suggest that he encourages eugenic elimination. I know that you get there by assuming that D requires C, C requires B, and B requires A, but most people don't operate on those same assumptions. As I said before in this thread, the Pope will NEVER support abortion as a way of "preventing" ASD.

I know that none of us believe ASD can be "cured," but huge strides HAVE been made in the past decades improving the lives and outcomes for ASD children. My son has benefited greatly from many of them. Not all research is bad.


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24 Nov 2014, 4:10 am

The words "sick", "pathology" 'heal", "prevent the onset" does a lot to undo the very acceptance and lessening of the stigma he is trying to accomplish. And only children were mentioned. Prayers are nice and appreciated, listening to us instead of Autism Speaks is what was needed, but that did not happen. I am not going to say the event was harmful, and that no good came out of the Pope speaking about eliminating the stigma, but a huge opportunity for a lot more was not taken advantage of and that hurts.


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24 Nov 2014, 2:03 pm

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The words "sick", "pathology" 'heal", "prevent the onset" does a lot to undo the very acceptance and lessening of the stigma he is trying to accomplish. And only children were mentioned. Prayers are nice and appreciated, listening to us instead of Autism Speaks is what was needed, but that did not happen. I am not going to say the event was harmful, and that no good came out of the Pope speaking about eliminating the stigma, but a huge opportunity for a lot more was not taken advantage of and that hurts.


I agree with all 4 points you make ASPOM. Maybe I will write a prayer citing them and send it to him.



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24 Nov 2014, 5:14 pm

Proverbs 17:15



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24 Nov 2014, 5:54 pm

ASPartOfMe wrote:
The words "sick", "pathology" 'heal", "prevent the onset" does a lot to undo the very acceptance and lessening of the stigma he is trying to accomplish. And only children were mentioned. Prayers are nice and appreciated, listening to us instead of Autism Speaks is what was needed, but that did not happen. I am not going to say the event was harmful, and that no good came out of the Pope speaking about eliminating the stigma, but a huge opportunity for a lot more was not taken advantage of and that hurts.


Agreed.

Definitely a missed opportunity.


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