AngelRho wrote:
To me flirting is a game…a freakin' mating ritual.
Game?
AngelRho wrote:
but flirting is NOT necessary.
It is for me. It's my kind of dating.
AngelRho wrote:
Psychologically it IS aggressive and threatening, and I think the emotions flirting evokes serves to heighten sexual tension.
Cannot recognize myself in that either. Flirting for me is absolutely not aggressive, and if it is threatening you must do it all the wrong way. It's also not sexual. It's all about showing interest and to show you are serious about it and want to invest some time without any direct reward.
AngelRho wrote:
If your goal is to sleep with someone soon after meeting them, flirting is good.
Never happened to me.
What you describe seems a lot more like cat-calling than flirting.