kraftiekortie wrote:
So what if somebody wants to "get into your pants?"
That's the whole idea, really.
However, if a person finds that "special someone," it is fairly frequent that this person has the patience to wait months or years before any consummation. They look at that person as their friend, as well as their (future) lover. I don't see the problem with that.
It's called being civilized, while still wanting to "get into each others pants."
For me, if I want a friendship, i want a friendship. If I want the sexual tension, i date. I don't befriend men I'd be remotely sexually interested in.