RushKing wrote:
Update
There is another girl who flirts, but I'm uninterested in. (Girl #2)
5 days ago Feb 23, the crush entered the store I was unsure if she still likes me. I was on lane 6 this time again. I was afraid again, she came to grab the hangers and I didn't look. Girl #2 was on lane 5 the earlier this day, but is doing something else at the moment. The crush is breaking people today. She hops on to lane 5 and when there were no people she faced herself towards me while smiling. I didn't have any words and felt unprepared so walked over to the end of my lane. Eventually it was time for her to swap in for me she stood behind while I was finishing up. After I finished I asked her if she was breaking me. She said yes and realized there was less than 1 minute, so I zipped out of there.
After I came back Girl #2 was around. The crush logged out and told me thank you with a smile. The crush asked Girl #2 if she can go on lane 5. Girl #2 asks: "why do you want lane 5?" Crush: "It's my lane." I looked down at the scanner with a light grin. Girl #2 asks: "Whats so special about lane 5?" Crush became silent. Lane 7, the lane behind me does not open. It is where we go for supplies and sceduals. But later the crush was doing work with supplies. I remember while I was checking people when she came over to grab something she would glance at me like she wanted to talk, but it couldn't happen with a customer around. The last time she came to grab something she had a sad look on her face and I'm assuming she knew that was the last time she could get near me before she had swap in for someone far away. I did make eye contact with her that day. There were people around but I just made a glance with a faint smile. I had already timed out how long it would be, so when her eyes locked on mine it was like a tenth of a second. I ended up pulling away before I realized she had responded. Her response came with a smile.
The next day she was not working, but I spotted her in the store with friend of hers but I didn't look directly. It looked like they were acting. They entered lanes in my vision pointing and laughing at merchandise. They didn't buy anything.
Today she was not working. I saw her again talking to the nearest supervisor. I looked directly because I had to to see if it was her in the angle she was in. She had three friends with her this time and they didn't buy anything. She was the last out of the store leaving slowly, trailing behind.
I think you're overthinking everything -- including the fact that you think you may love a girl whose name you don't know and who literally hasn't said boo to you.
Surely, you can find two seconds to say "hi, I'm Bob and you are??" at some point during the overlap of your shifts.
01 Mar 2015, 7:12 pm
