11 Mar 2015, 9:57 am
11 Mar 2015, 10:32 am
11 Mar 2015, 10:36 am
You were pretty precocious, weren't you? 
I used to have a vague feeling when I used to play "house" with girls. But my first intense sexual feelings was when I was about 14.
You would have made a pretty good Roman!
11 Mar 2015, 10:39 am
kraftiekortie wrote:
You were pretty precocious, weren't you?
I used to have a vague feeling when I used to play "house" with girls. But my first intense sexual feelings was when I was about 14.
You would have made a pretty good Roman!
I used to have a vague feeling when I used to play "house" with girls. But my first intense sexual feelings was when I was about 14.
You would have made a pretty good Roman!
I started having sexual feelings at 11!
I kind of wonder if being molested may have caused me to have sexual feelings at an earlier age.
11 Mar 2015, 10:42 am
11 Mar 2015, 10:47 am
11 Mar 2015, 12:27 pm
11 Mar 2015, 2:03 pm
11 Mar 2015, 4:46 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
Being molested, unfortunately, could lead to "too early" sexual feelings.
I've had sexual feelings for women since I was 4 years old, or younger.
I don't remember anything in my life at all before being 4 years old.
My family tells me I was attracted to girls my age when I was 1 or 2 years old.
When I was 5 years old, I saw nude photos of women and I liked it.
When I was 9 years old, I saw hardcore video porn, and I wished that there were no guys in the video.
I was molested before I had memories.
One family member caught the other family member molesting me as a baby.
The family member doing it to me saw nothing wrong with it, said it was a tradition from where they come from.
Could this be why I've always been attracted to women for my entire life?
How awful.
As for polyamory, I could take it or leave it.
When I was 13 years old, I had my first sexual encounter with a female my age.
I had to share her with a few other guys.
I didn't even know her name until later.
She just showed up, and she allowed everyone in our group of so-called-friends.
I got to stay the night with her in her room. Everyone else went home. I felt like a winner, like she chose me.
Two days later, she wasn't into me anymore.
I felt so high because of her.
But, when it was over, I felt like I was having withdrawals for about 2 or 3 years.
12 Mar 2015, 2:36 am
LillaA wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
I would love to be a hinge of a V involving two women both bi loving eachother as well as me it would be awesome! I would snuggle with them and cuddle with them and they can snuggle and cuddle with each other it would be super awesome!
From what I've seen, in the polyamory world, a "V" means a relationship where 1 person is in a relationship with 2 others, but the 2 others aren't in a relationship with each other. What you've described is usually called a "triad" - think of a triangle, all 3 points are connected to each other - so you're in a relationship with both girls and both girls are in a relationship with each other (or 3 girls are in relationship with each other or 3 guys or 1 girl and 2 guys). If a polyamorous relationship is intended to be long-term and exclusive, it's sometimes called "polyfidelity" rather than "polyamory" to indicate that all involved members (3 in a triad) are faithful to each other and committed to a longer relationship, as opposed to "swingers" or others who have multiple short-term relationships.
A polyfidelity-based triad would, I think, be a very supportive and solid arrangement with the right 3 people. They're rare, because generally once 2 get together, any 3rd assumes they're "unavailable" and it's hard to make anything come about...but I'd love to be one of the exceptions. I am already part of a couple, so know that my chances of experiencing a triad are pretty slight (my partner would be happy to have a 2nd girl as well, but changing desire into reality is difficult), but if I ended up being one of the lucky ones, that'd be awesome.
My partner got to know a triad and he's told me about their story, and I've read stories of a few others. How they get together is always interesting to hear about - usually, it seems, none of the involved parties had any clue polyamory even existed, but somehow they still ended up together.Here's one blog that I really enjoyed reading through: http://itaintyourmamasthreesome.blogspot.com
12 Mar 2015, 10:42 am
30 Mar 2015, 10:50 pm
nick007
Veteran
Joined: 4 May 2010
Age: 41
Gender: Male
Posts: 27,125
Location: was Louisiana but now Vermont in the police state called USA
31 Mar 2015, 9:05 pm
05 Apr 2015, 11:20 pm
One of my exes and I dated a girl together and it was really enjoyable, for a while...
He ended up breaking-up with me for her.
It was actually for the best. He was a huge jerk but I couldn't bring myself to leave him.
In my fantasy life I would be in a triad with a male and female. However, I love my current bf too much to risk losing him.
06 Apr 2015, 4:05 am
06 Apr 2015, 7:22 am
| Similar Topics | |
|---|---|
| "polyamory is the only way we can afford a home" |
06 Feb 2024, 6:35 am |
| Autistic burnout discussion thread |
05 Apr 2024, 10:42 am |
| Discussion on juvenile sentencing standards |
20 Mar 2024, 6:17 pm |
| Autism |
13 Mar 2024, 7:44 am |
